Black, Single, Men, with No Kids: The Truth

Black Single Men

Turn on any movie, TV show or open any magazine and you'll find all sorts of subtle stereotypes being presented about Black Men. Although 75% of current African Americans have a slave as an ancestor, Black men are called lazy. Although Black people were systematically raped, families torn apart, robbed, mutilated and killed, Black men are stigmatized as being unable to hold a family together. Although countless studies and court cases show that police violate the constitutional rights of Blacks, Black men are trotted out as being the majority of prisoners, as if the number alone suggests that he is more wrong than any other racial group. Finally we get to the last stereotype, that Black men cannot be fathers.

I have already shown you that Black men are fathers, take care of their children, and support and spend time with their children more than any other race. Now, I show you proof that the numbers cannot be true that Black men are dead beats they are said to be, coming from the other side, single Black men.

You cannot have a stereotype of the Black man being a dead beat if I've shown you a majority of them are fathers, heads of households. To make sure you understand it, I come from the other side: what percent of Black men have no children.

The answer staggered even me.

In a previous article I told you a majority of Black men are heads of households, supporting their children. At 52%, it destroys all these people trying to stereotype Black men as being deadbeat dads, that leave their children alone and not support them.

Now I present you with the other side, Black men without children.

I mailed the government census office to ask the question, directly. Here is the response:

Hi,

Although we do not have this estimate in published tables, our subject-matter expert ran a quick tab in Data Ferrett.  It is for Black alone men age 15 and over, in answer to the question about how many biological children they have ever fathered. Of the 12.95 million Black alone men in 2009, 5.5 million, or 42 percent, have not fathered a child. Of course, this includes many young men who will eventually father a child. The data set does not show Black alone or in combination as a racial category.

Robert Bernstein
Public Information Office
U.S. Census Bureau
(301) 763-2603

That's right folks. 42% of Black men have not fathered children.

Let's do some math here.

52% of Black men father children and take care of them in marriage or as single fathers

42% of Black men have no children

that means 92% of Black men are either good fathers or have no children

that leaves only 8% of Black men as fitting this stereotype as deadbeat fathers

Anyone understands that 8% does not make a stereotype. It would be atypical of a Black man then to be estranged to his own children. So where is this stereotype coming from?

The answer is obvious. The Black man is being attacked. By attacking the Black man, the Black family will be destroyed.

All of those government sponsored social programs that the Democrats love to trot out: welfare; WIC; food stamps; medicaid. They all have one thing in common, "you must take the man out of the picture." You cannot get their assistance if you have a man in the picture. The woman is literally forced to break all relations with her husband, fiance, boyfriend if she is on those programs.

It is just another attack on the Black family.

A young Black woman that might have a child before marriage, by this system, destroys herself, the child's future and any hope of a family.

Now the Black man is under attack, at the same time.

I heard a sheriff say one time, "if I could, I would round up every negro and get them off the street."

We are under attack and no one wants to admit it.

Who is putting out stereotypes that Black men make horrible fathers, are deadbeats and unfit to be married? Black women did not originate this.

In fact, if you ever hear that, please ask the person where they got that from.

My numbers do not lie.

• Black men make excellent husbands
• Black men take care of their families
• Black men care for their children
• Single Black men do not go around having children
• Single Black men concentrate on their careers, education and building wealth

You do know that there are more Black men in college, than there are in prison. You don't hear that often enough.

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Most Black Men are Married

Turn on the TV and Black men seem to be in jail, arrested, doing drugs or a womanizing rapper with all of the above going on. The problem is that people do not understand what they are watching. TV executives only put on TV what they think will get attention.

Stupid white people, with missing teeth, will get your attention. Asian kids that dance like Black cheerleaders will get your attention. Middle-aged Jewish businessmen that rap better than Eminem will get your attention. But, this is the problem no one thinks all Jewish people are rappers. No one thinks all asians are dancers. No one thinks all white people are stupid with teeth missing. But, people think ALL BLACK PEOPLE ARE VIOLENT CRIMINALS. People think all Black men are dogs. People think all Black men leave their newborn children in the wind.

It has gotten so bad, that, Black people think Black people are violent criminals, dead beat dads and womanizers.

It has grown hard to separate fact from fiction.

The internet makes matters worse. Because everyone can sit at their computer, download a program and start typing, the myth about how bad Black men are, can now grow exponentially. Sisters are now getting in on the game.

If a Black woman starts a blog talking about how great her marriage is, her blog will fail, and no one will read it. If a Black woman starts a blog talking about how her man dogged her, left her pregnant, won't return her calls and won't marry her, she will be the belle of the ball. None of these sisters mention that they slept around, did drugs while pregnant and ran her Black man away, and uses the court system to keep the child away from him, just to get back at him.

You will see stories about Black men being afraid of commitment, i.e. not wanting to get married, or worse, the dreaded interracial marriage.

You can open up any search engine and find pages and pages of entries talking about how Black men are marrying white women. The truth is only 8% of Black men marry white women. That's a far cry from what sisters try to portray. That means less than 1 in 10 Black men marry white women.

Now let's look at some real numbers.

An overwhelming majority of Black men are married: 52%. This means most of the blogs talking about Black men being afraid of commitment is just that one sister's experience. Maybe, just maybe, she needs to stop going to lower class businesses.

Most men do not speak out, about anything. But, now that videos and blogs have become so popular, brothers have taken to the internet. Nearly all videos and blogs I read, presented by men say one thing: sisters need to stop acting like hood rats, get rid of the fake hair weaves and stop being hypersexual.

Now that is shocking. You would think Black men would want easy pickings right? But, nope. In my readings I come across it time and time again. Black men do not want and easy woman. It reflects badly on the sister and badly on him.

The myth that Black men do not take care of their children is also out there. The truth is that there are quite a few Black men who are single fathers. You never hear about it. There are, as said above, and overwhelming majority of Black men that are married. You never hear about that either. A recent study showed that Black men spend more time with their estranged children and give them money, more than any other race. You never hear this at all.

The reality is that the Black man is painted to be this boogie man. It's white slavery tactics all over again. Degrade the Black man so far, to the point that no one trusts him to even be human. Get the Black woman so confused that she attacks the Black man.

There are plenty of stories of Black women sabotaging their own relationships.

Listen!

If you are a Black woman and you are having bad luck with your Black brothers, take a long hard look in the mirror. Ask yourself, "am I sabotaging my relationships?" Ask yourself, "am I the victim of brainwashing?"

As a Black woman, you are the prime target to convince to mistrust your Black man. This is a game and it is for keeps.

You might also be wondering about the Black men that aren't married. It's simple. 3% of Black men are enthralled with the homosexual fetish. About 25% are single, never been married, never had kids. About 5% are in jail, or on probation. That leaves about 10% that are free, single with children they are not in the home with. As to their real story, there has never been any research done on them. Oh, there are generalities, but no one has, nor probably ever will do any research on them. Why? Because they are afraid they might find that those Black men may start off estranged from their kids but end up marrying the woman or support the kids under the table or something else that would shatter their boogie man image of the Black man.

Conclusion

Most Black men are

• married
• educated
• middle-class
• support their families
• religious
• keep it in their pants [ only 1.2 population growth of all Black people. that means that Black people are barely maintaining their population. ]

Sorry to tell you this. But, Black men are just as normal and boring as white men. We have our problems, but nowhere near what the main stream media puts out.

Black men are NOT rappers, walking around with their pants down by their ankles, showing off their butt, with not money, broke, jobless and womanizers.

I know a lot of you got mind wiped, and brainwashed. Stop it.

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Black Genocide in America: Attacking the Black Father

Open any newspaper, log onto your favorite Black woman rant blog, or watch any movie that talks about Black men and you'll always hear: Black men leave their children in the dust and don't take care of them. I am here to tell you it's all a BIG FAT LIE. It is a systemic attack on the Black man.

So many people see statements like this, and think they are true and start to repeat the lie over and over. Before you start repeating all of these lies, stop and think for a second: who is saying this; what is their qualification for saying this; how do they know this? Most of TV is material they need to put on there to take up time, so they can make money from the commercials in between. That material is called content. This "content" doesn't mean they have to back up their claims. They can simply say anything they want, so long as the commercials keep rolling.

You have done no research at all. In fact, you're just propagating the attacks on the Black family and the all out genocide of Black men.

Let me give you some real facts: 58% of Black women are or have been married [this includes divorced and widowed]; 65% of Black men are or have been married [this includes divorced and widowed]. Now only 4.8% of Black men are in jail, period [US Bureau of Justice statistics] So they are not impacting the total Black mail population. So only 35% of Black men have never been married.

A very glaring database is left out: Black men without children. Let me venture a guess on this.

Different researchers have said that between 3%-9% of the population is homosexual. In my estimation a large percentage of that is female. [sadly] Of that percent I would guess  3% represent men. [with no children]

1,909,000 Black men hold a 4 year college degree or better: 1,341,000 4 year degree; 409,000 masters degree; 88,000 professional degree [doctor / lawyer etc] I am willing to bet that a high percentage of these men have no children, especially the 500,000 that have higher than 4 yr degrees. The Black population is now at 41.8 million [2010 census] half of which are men, so about 21 million [data suggests that slightly more men than women are born] so a cool 10% probably have no children.

That brings the grand total to 13% of Black men with no children. So of the Black men left that leaves 35% - 13% = 22% of Black men who have children and are unmarried.

Finally, the last nail in the coffin for these silly rants people have been making against Black men, is that Pew Research showed that Black men spend more quality time with their children than any other racial group. These are the unmarried fathers.

These attacks on Black men are coming from both the outside and within the Black race. They are unwarranted, often misguided and always not backed up with any data. People see someone say something negative on tv about Black men or Black children and assume it's true.

No, we are not at 1950 levels of 70% marriage rate among Blacks, but we are nowhere near the 72% of Black children born without fathers lies that are constantly being spread.

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What's Going On? What's Happening Brother (extended video)

Marvin Gaye - What's Going On?

The Black man in America today is the most victimized of everyone today.  Because we as a community do not stand up for each other nor pool our resources, we are just lambs fit for slaughter.  What does that mean?  That means we Black people don't beat a path to a Black man's door who opens up a store, and therefore Black owned businesses have a MUCH higher failure rate than all other races.  That means we have no political power and the police and government does with Black men as they please.  Let's talk about likelihood - Black men are more likely to be thrown in jail for minor offenses and petty regulations made by a city or state; Black men are more likely to have to drop out of school due to lack of funding for education; Black men are more likely to not be hired for jobs they are qualified for; dark Black men suffer twice as much social injustice at the hands of not only whites, but other Blacks as well.  The father of social consciousness, Marvin Gaye, spoke about this 40 years ago.  While Martin Luther King preached about civil rights, he never touched on the whole picture.  We ascribe to Martin Luther King everything, when the reality is, he was as much of a pawn of the system as Obama is today.  Marvin Gaye on the other hand, was able to say exactly what he felt.  I present to you his song "What's Going On" and "What's Happening Brother".

Marvin Gaye - "What's Going On"

What's Going On is the eleventh studio album by soul musician Marvin Gaye, released May 21, 1971, on the Motown-subsidiary label Tamla Records.  Recording sessions for the album took place in June 1970 and March–May 1971 at Hitsville U.S.A., Golden World and United Sound Studios in Detroit, Michigan and at The Sound Factory in West Hollywood, California.

The first Marvin Gaye album credited as produced solely by the artist himself, What's Going On is a unified concept album consisting of nine songs, most of which lead into the next. It has also been categorized as a song cycle, since the album ends on a reprise to the album's opening theme. The album is told from the point of view of a Vietnam War veteran returning to the country he had been fighting for, and seeing nothing but injustice, suffering and hatred.

What's Going On was the first album on which Motown Records' main studio band, the group of session musicians known as the Funk Brothers, received an official credit. Featuring introspective lyrics about drug abuse, poverty and the Vietnam War, the album was also the first to reflect the beginning of a new socially conscious trend in soul music. What's Going On was both an immediate commercial and critical success and has endured as a classic of early-1970s soul. A deluxe edition set of the album was released on February 27, 2001, and featured a rare live concert shot at Washington, D.C.'s Kennedy Center where the singer was given the key to the city.

In worldwide critics', artists' and public surveys, it has been voted one of the landmark recordings in pop music history and is considered to be one of the greatest albums ever made.  In 2003, the album was ranked number 6 on Rolling Stone magazine's list of the 500 greatest albums of all time.




In late March 1970, Marvin Gaye had fallen into a deep depression following the death of his singing partner and fellow Motown artist Tammi Terrell, who had died of a brain tumor earlier that month. Gaye refused to record or perform, going as far as to attempt an athletic career in football with the Detroit Lions of the NFL. After an unsuccessful tryout for the team, Gaye came in contact with musician Al Cleveland and the Four Tops' Renaldo "Obie" Benson, who were working on a politically conscious song called "What's Going On". Gaye assisted Cleveland and Benson in completing the composition, and planned to produce the song as a recording for the Motown act The Originals. However, Cleveland and Benson persuaded Gaye to record the song himself.

In June 1970, Gaye recorded "What's Going On" and his own composition, "God Is Love", which further expanded his inclusion of his spirituality in his music. Recording such material was a different direction for Gaye, who had previously performed and recorded radio-formatted and contemporary songs that were more representative of the Gordy-produced Motown Sound rather than politically or socially conscious music. When Gaye delivered the songs as the sides for his next 45-rpm single, his brother-in-law, Motown Records CEO Berry Gordy, Jr., objected to the material and refused to release the recordings. Though he had already permitted other Motown artists to record and release material that hinted at social and political themes – Edwin Starr's "War", The Temptations' "Ball of Confusion", both released earlier in 1970, and Stevie Wonder's "Heaven Help Us All", released later in the year – Gordy considered "What's Going On" far too political to be promoted on radio and too unusual compared with the popular music sound of that time to be commercially successful.  Gaye, however, stood his ground and continued to lobby his case to label executives and to Gordy, as he did not want to be bound by Gordy's or Motown's version of music.

In an interview for Rolling Stone magazine, Marvin Gaye discussed what had shaped his view on more socially conscious themes in music and the conception of his eleventh full-length, non-duets studio album:

    In 1969 or 1970, I began to re-evaluate my whole concept of what I wanted my music to say... I was very much affected by letters my brother was sending me from Vietnam, as well as the social situation here at home. I realized that I had to put my own fantasies behind me if I wanted to write songs that would reach the souls of people. I wanted them to take a look at what was happening in the world. — Marvin Gaye

Gordy eventually gave in, certain that the record would flop. Upon its release in January 1971, "What's Going On" became Motown's fastest selling single at that point, going to the number-one spot on the R&B charts for five weeks and number-two for three weeks on the Pop listings, with "Joy to the World" by Three Dog Night retaining the top spot.

In 1985, writers on British music weekly the NME voted it best album of all time.  In 2004, the album's title track was ranked number 4 on Rolling Stone's list of the 500 greatest songs of all time.  A 1999 critics poll conducted by British newspaper Guardian/Observer named it the "Greatest Album of the 20th Century". In 1997, What's Going On was named the 17th greatest album of all time in a Music of the Millennium poll conducted in the United Kingdom by HMV Group, Channel 4, The Guardian and Classic FM. In 1998 Q magazine readers placed it at number 97, while in 2001 the TV network VH1 placed it at number 4. In 2003, it was one of 50 recordings chosen that year by the Library of Congress to be added to the National Recording Registry. What's Going On was ranked #6 on Rolling Stone magazine's 2003 list of the 500 Greatest Albums of All Time, one of three Gaye albums to be included, preceded by 1973's Let's Get It On (#165) and 1978's Here My Dear (#462).  The album is Gaye's highest-ranking entry on the list, as well as several other publications' lists.

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For Blacks: Mo Money in 2011?

My Financial Suggestions for Negros in 2011

Hello brothers and sisters!  Happy new year.  I hope you sat down at your desk and mapped out your year and planned everything you would "like" to do this year.  But, what about what you would like to financially achieve this year?  Very often Black folks, or even Americans in general, do not sit down at the beginning of a year and plan ahead for their finances.  Trust me on this one when I say, when you write it down, just the act alone, seems to help you achieve it.  I am always harping on what Black folks won't do.  So I like to put my money where my mouth is, and we'll go through this together and suggest what ought to be done.  Ever hear of a Black leader that does that?  They're so quick to tell you what shouldn't be done.  Black preachers climb the pulpit every Sunday and tell you what you can't do.  Black "leaders", a.k.a. NAACP wannabes, delight in telling you how you've been wronged.  But, not a damn one of them empower us.  Not a damn one of them tell us what we can do.

I don't think Black people have financial education.  I am no Warren Buffet but I will share with you some financial ideas that I think even the most financially uneducated brother or sister can not only understand, but financially do.

This Year's Financial Planning for Black People

I am going to tell you some things that might seem counter to what all the financial gurus are talking about.  But, what you don't know is most of those financial gurus are not talking to you.  They are talking to people who have $150,000 saved in the bank.  Do you know the average social security retiree has a whopping $50,000 saved in their social 401k plan?  There is no way they can retire off of that.  So all these speeches about what you should do with your money does not apply to you.  [and me]  We do not have the basic of the basic already sorted out, have at least $50,000 in savings alone.  So if I say something that doesn't jive with what your financial hero is telling you, understand that your financial hero makes about $300,000 a year and think everyone has $50,000 saved in the bank ALREADY.

The Easy Way to Save

Before you can save you have to get your spending under control.  If you go to a store more than twice a month, you are out of control.  That is including groceries.  Basically the idea is that most Americans are living waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay above their means.  They are shopping non-stop.  They are paying for things they do not need.

There are far more rich people that lived below their means and saved up, than there are that wandered into a pot of gold.  There are far more rich people that were stingy with their money than those that had riches fall in their lap.  Being wealthy takes planning and commitment.  Don't be afraid of the word wealthy either.  I consider wealthy to also cover how great your family is, spiritually.  Oh and by the way, these days having one million dollars is not considered rich anymore.

Now, all the financial gurus tell you that saving your money works against you.  The Federal Reserve Bank prints a cool $50 million a day.  That's right! A Day!  That means the $50 you put in your bank every paycheck by the time you walk out the door, is really only worth about $45.  Just that fast inflation is eating your money.  Now couple that with the fact of capital gains tax, which is %15 off of what you make in a savings account.  Right now across the land it's a bleak 1% OR LESS.  So if inflation of 5% and an additional 15% don't get you, your own spending will get you.

So why am I even discussing savings?  Because you have to have a foundation before you can anything with money.  You cannot talk about sound investing if you have no money to invest.  You do know that, at a minimum people are talking about having $20,000 or $30,000, when they are discussing investing.  And, they expect you to have that saved by age 26 or so.  So if you don't have that, all of that discussion doesn't even apply to you.

I asked my bank if my account was terrible, two different banks told me that 90% of their account holders did not have enough in their account to buy an expensive meal.

So what can we do to save money? There is a financial term called a DRIP program.  It stands for dividend reinvestment program.  It means that you buy into the direct shares of a company, below the minimum of what a normal investor would have to pay, about $1,000.  Your buy in is then kept by the company and as your little money stays, they pay you an exact portion of what you make off of your "stock", when they pay out dividends.  However, instead of you getting the money, for your tiny portion, the company reinvests the money to buy you more stocks.  So, for instance, if you were to buy into the Proctor & Gamble DRIP program with $500, come time for them to pay out dividends, they take the $5 you earned and buy you more stock.  So you end up with $505 worth of stock in the company.  Over a long period of time, you might end up with 20,000 shares from just a tiny amount.

My suggestion is for you to apply the same principle to yourself and your savings account.  Most people put all of their money into their checking account so they can pay off bills and such, or buy groceries.  That is fine.  As long as you keep an up-to-date checkbook you will never go into the hole.  Setup your own DRIP program from your checking account, to your savings account.  Unless your bank is in the stone age, you can go online and do this.

Setup a daily or weekly transfer from your checking account to your savings account.  Now the amount is going to be the big question.  Put too little in and reaching $30,000 will take forever.  Put too much in, and unless you are really in control of your spending, you might run the risk of getting in trouble.  In trouble because the savings account is to be treated as if it is untouchable.  Under no circumstances can you take out money from your savings account.  That is the whole point of it being a "savings" account.

Think of it in terms of how much you are personally worth every day.  Let's say you make $100 a day.  Of that $100 how much goes to direct, unquestionable, expenses, i.e. rent, power, water, gasoline / transportation?  Now remember this is daily.  Let's say $50 a day covers all your expenses.  Then you might have $20 in questionable expenses, i.e. cell phone bills.  That leaves you with $30 a day to play around with.  Let's say you put that into your savings account, which gives you 1% interest:

• $210 a week or $30 a day
• 1% interest rate
• compounded monthly

That comes out to be $114,855.00 after 10 years.

Let's say you only put in $10 a day, at 1% interest into a savings account

• $70 a week or $10 a day
• 1% interest rate
• compounded monthly

That comes out to be $38, 285.00 after 10 years.

You can see right off that aggressively saving is going to get you there faster.  If your goal is to get to $30,000 it would take you 3 years if you only saved $30 a day or $210 a week at 1% interest.  To get to $30,000 in one year at 1% interest rate you would have to save $80 a day.

Now most black folk only think of themselves, by themselves.  Let's think outside the box right quick.  Imagine that your entire family contributed to the savings account.  You could probably easily save $80 a day, or more.  If you consolidated your families expenses by moving together and sharing the expenses, you could probably cut everyone's expenses in half.  Yes, I am talking about your grown children moving home, or you moving in with your grown children.  Outside of the U.S. people live with their extended family under the same roof, quite frequently.  And, before you start going down the path thinking I'm talking about some poor 3rd world country, I am talking about Europe, very wealthy countries.  Only Americans consider it their duty to move out and double their expenses, like idiots.  Or worse, get into a house that takes away more than 30% of their salary.  You do know that mortgage lenders do not want to lend you any money if all of your monthly debts exceed 36%.  That includes house note, car note, cell phone bill, power, water, garbage, property taxes, gas bill.  So if you made $100 a day, you better not have more than $36 a day in total bills.  That is $1080 a month in bills.  If you are paying more than that, in total bills, you are living WELLLLL above your means, i.e. you're broke.

What Can I Do With Thirty-Thousand Dollars in One Year?

So we are going to save this $30,000 this year.  The next question is, what do i do with it?  No we are not going to spend it all.  We are going to go into business for our selves / family.  Of all the business ventures you could go into, real estate is still the safest to get into.  With $30,000 you can leverage yourself into most single family properties, that you are going to rent out to someone.

So the plan is to get into a nice single family home and rent it out for "cash flow".  First you have to prepare yourself.  Buy every real estate book you can get your hand on.  Keep in mind, no one book is going to have all the answers.  Even text book real estate books, do not have all the answers.

Next, become an expert in accounting. Read everything you can on accounting.  If you do not know about money, you will never keep money.  Understand that accounting is only going to tell you how money is tabulated.  However, it is a basic principle that is unquestionably necessary to learn.  Every Black person in America should know accounting to the advanced level.

Next, comes understanding taxes.  Every Black person in America should learn taxes inside and out.  So many Black people are raped by the federal, state and local government through taxes, it isn't even funny.  And, I used the word rape literally.  Black folks pay, per capita, the highest taxes of any other racial group and yet have the lowest median household income in the entire nation.*  There has got to be an end to it.  Know your taxes.  Take advantage of tax shelters and tax deductions.  Your children are your biggest way to save yourself from taxes.  While you keep pushing them away and telling them stupid crap like, "man up" and move out the house, you're killing yourself with taxes.  Idiot!  Stupid is, as stupid does.  Black folks shoot themselves in the foot, face and head all day long and then turn around and wonder why they're in the state that they're in.

I suggest you print this article out and sit down at your desk and plan out your year:

• learn everything about real estate
• learn everything about accounting
• learn everything about taxes
• save $30,000 this year

Now that sounds like a financial new year's resolution that you can achieve.

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For Blacks: He Wasn't Man Enough for Me

Black Girl You're Doing it Wrong

Pay a million dollars for a sick beat, get a catchy hook and then lay down the most F*ed up lyrics talking about how a Black man is a douchebag, and you have a national hit.  You will be sure it will go to the #1 spot in no time.  Is there something to these songs?  Where are these songs coming from?  Are there Black men out there, just breaking Black women's heart after heart?  Where are these casanovas?  The answer is, there are none.  There is no mass Black man heart-breaking club.  Oh, I'm sure there are some male Black gigolos out there, don't get me wrong, but there is no lonely-heart club out there for Black men.  So where do these songs come from?

They come from music producers hell-bent on trying to bring the Black man down.  And, you buy it.

But, this article isn't about retarded folk who make retarded music and the retarded folk that buy it.  This article is about how YOU can assure yourself that you are not going to end up with a scrub.

Shakaama Live Calling for All Black Bloggers to Start a New Campaign

Campaign for Black Male Marriage

Hi, this is your host Shakaama. I thought long and hard how to start my series on the Black man. I have done an impromptu series on the Black woman, with differing acceptance and result. However, I would like to start a very formal campaign for the Black man. To kick off the series, I would like to start my campaign for Black male marriage. I want to have an entire campaign dedicated to encouraging Black men to get married, and stay married. While mass media does everything in its power to downplay marriage and come against it, nothing can be said about encouraging marriage. But the facts are clear, marriage is the highest form of a relationship on the planet. For a people to be successful, they must first have a wide swath of them be married. The media doesn't encourage this because it is not profitable. It is more profitable to tear someone down, trash them and insult everything about them, than it is to build someone up or point out their strengths.



To start the campaign, I am calling all Black bloggers to contact me. I thought long and hard about this. We could set a date to launch the campaign and we would all blog about Black male marriage on the same day and keep it up for a few days. The net would have no choice but to recognize the buzz and ensure the success of the campaign. Simply contact me or comment below leaving your blog info. Any link on my blog is actually a do-follow link, so feel free to comment and leave your link. However, any nefarious comments and links will be completely ignored, you know who you are. In return I will contact each and every one of you and setup the date when we launch `privately.

People reading this might say, why only Black bloggers. The answer is simple. White people always complain that Black people look for handouts and do nothing for themselves. This is Black people doing something for ourselves. If you think it unfair that your blog would not be included in the campaign, I don't think it's fair that nearly all media is 99.99999% white. You think Telemundo was started simply as a whim? You think BET was started as a whim? So this is Black people taking the initiative to get out from under the power of someone else and doing our own thing.

Black Male Campaign

As I said the Black male marriage campaign is simply a kick off to the Black male campaign. You do not have to participate in the whole campaign, but if you would like to, I would be happy to correspond with you about each topic each day. It would mean a very successful campaign all around if everything was coordinated.

As it stands, overall, I wish to encourage the Black man to go beyond what he is now.

• I want to encourage him to learn to speak proper English
• I want to encourage him to learn everything there is to know about personal finance
• I want to encourage him to marry so that he can grow his estate
• I want to encourage him to take a very hands-on and active role in the education of his children
• I want to encourage him to have the proper attitude about money and to teach that to his children, i.e. sew your own clothes or buy cheap ones, instead of buying name brand to show off (what does a 6 month old need with $100 shoes, he's going to outgrow in a couple of months)
• I want to encourage him to have tremendous respect for himself
• I want to encourage him to understand he owes his community, because he is not alone and people have paid dearly for him to be where he is at
• I want to encourage him to never lay hands on another brother, it should be unthinkable that a Black man should lay his hands on another Black man, just as it is unthinkable for a Black man to lay his hands on a sister

These are but a few of the topics that will be covered in the Black male campaign. Like I said comment below or contact me if you wish to participate, Black bloggers only please. Thank you.

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There are More White People on Welfare Than The Total Black Population

The Truth about Welfare

Watch any talk show, conservative news show or read a liberal newspaper, and they all give the same message, "Black people are on welfare and have been for generations." In fact one presidential campaign made it their double-talk slogan, "no more generations of welfare recipients", "stop people living off the public dole." Republicans and Democrats alike all jumped on the bandwagon. News casters picked up on the slogan and asked the question, "who are we talking about?" They received no direct answer but were given the old, nod and wink "you know who we're talking about."



This lie that Blacks live off of welfare has been spread so far and wide and repeated over and over and over so much that common ignorant people have come to accept it as fact. In fact, even Black people themselves have accepted as fact. You have Black comedians accepting it as fact and then assuming it to be fact, make up jokes with that as the basis of their punchline.

The fact is, white people are a majority of the welfare recipients. In fact, white people make up more than Blacks and Latinos put together on welfare. In fact, there are more white people on welfare than there exist Black people in America. Let me repeat, there are more white people on welfare than there are Black folks.

Of all the welfare recipients, only 22% of them are Black. Yes, that's 1/5th of the welfare recipients are Black. That, my friend, is a small number. White people make up nearly 50% of all welfare recipients.

So how did this racist stereotype come about that Blacks are on welfare? Or, I should ask, how did people agree with it when there is such a huge white population on welfare?

One word: Ignorance.

If you are ignorant of the facts, people can tell you anything and get away with it. If you are ignorant of the facts, people can take your money and you not even know it is being taken. If you are ignorant of the rules, people can throw you in jail and you agree to it.

Oh those are some outrageous statements aren't they? Guess what? People have been doing that in this country for over 2 centuries. It has gone full speed in the past 40 years. Now the media is in on the game, so all bets are off. If people have an agenda to push, it goes all out like gangbusters because the media can loop the message day and night, every hour, on the hour. You cannot compete with the truth, when the media tells you a lie. If the media wanted to reverse the color of grass and the sky, don't you know people would go along with it? If the media looped, "new grass color discovered, blue not green; new sky color discovered, green not blue." The media has done it in the past.

For instance, marijuana is a plant. It has thousands of uses, such as: making paper; making clothes; making rope; making polymers. In fact, the plant is so great that every material it makes is better than any other material on the planet currently. Hemp is the name of the plant. Hemp ropes are far stronger than silk ropes. Hemp paper is 3 times better than wood paper; lasts longer without fading; and doesn't take toxic chemicals to make it into paper. Hemp clothing doesn't destroy the earth to create; they are far easier to wash; don't get dirty as easily; they repel stains. In fact hemp makes hundreds of medical remedies that pharmaceutical companies cannot duplicate. A man wanted to push forward his investment in wood paper. He made the hemp plant seem diabolical, so he enlisted the media. Within a year, hemp was made illegal and people were afraid to go near it and thought it was satanic.

Do you see the power of the media? If they can change people's opinion about a plant, of course they can change and manipulate social perceptions about facts that aren't real. Who cares if someone is racist? The problem is the media going along with the agenda and pushing it forward. And, it's not just one source of media. They all do the same thing.

Think back for one second. The latest news story was plastered on every channel, local and national centers. And, they always have the same facts. No matter how independent your local station claims to be, they jump on the same bandwagon everyone else does.

Let's look for a second at a huge national story: the Laci Peterson case. Here's a case where a Latina went missing, was 7 months pregnant and who's body was found decapitated and various parts of her arms and legs were missing;and her body washed ashore nearly a year later. In the media, they pointed to Scott Peterson. They found out he had extramarital affairs. Surely if he was cheating on his wife he must have murdered her. But wait! I turn your attention to another national story: the Evelyn Hernandez case. Here's a case where a Latina went missing, was 7 months pregnant and who's body was found decapitated and various parts of her arms and legs were missing;and her body washed ashore 3 months later. Woah!

Did you just have deja vu? Everyone knows Scott Peterson murdered his wife right? Uh, did he also murder Evelyn Hernandez? What's strange is, we actually know where Scott Peterson was the whole time. And yet, they still convicted him. In fact, they just assumed he did it.

The reality of the two cases were so out of this world, that no one wanted to actually speak it allowed. So, the media just convicted poor "horny devil" Scott Peterson, and we all just nodded and looked the other way. What's the reality you ask? Well since you asked. In the south west there are known and documented cases of witchcraft and occult secret societies. These cults perform heinous sacrifices. The police have documented cases of it. But, you don't hear it in the news for some reason. The media keeps it hush hush. So the cults are the truth, but a regular man is on death row. While he did cheat on his wife, it doesn't mean he killed her, nor does it justify him being put to death. Regardless of the feminist organizations that wish it so, it is not right.

This is a case of the media gone wild. And, we sit back and take it. I could pin point case after case, news story after news story that are false, bigoted, and passing on misinformation. Misinformation is the biggest and largest crime that is going on.

If you've been reading my blog, I've already pointed out that:

• Black unwed fathers spend more time and money with their children than any other unwed fathers.
• Blacks pay their debts on time and more often than other races.
• Blacks have a much lower divorce rate than other races.
• Blacks have less out of wedlock children than other races.
• And now, Blacks are the least people to be on welfare than other races.

All of these stereotypes the news and shows put forth, media. But, we all accept it as fact. We think because we saw it on T.V. it must be true. When in fact, the opposite is true. Could it be that people are basing life decisions off of lies? Could it be politicians are making laws based on lies? Could it be the Federal Government is making policies based on lies?

You're right they are.

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Black Women are the Problem with Black Men

Black Women Single

Oprah Winfrey said it on her show, so obviously she and her staff have seen the same research I have: 70% of Black women are single. This has to be devastating news. And, before you ask about other races, I don't know. And, not to be blunt, I don't care, for the purpose of this article. I wrote an article, that seems to be quite popular: Top Ten Reasons Black Men Won't Date / Marry a Black Woman. Invariable the feedback goes along the same lines as the reasons the Black men gave in the national study on the subject: Black women's pride pushes everyone away, including Black men.

Black Women Dogging Black Men and Singing About It

Hate Against Black Men

There is a lot of hate speech, being put forth by women these days, started mainly by white women. Black women and the media have picked up this mantra. The notion is that they were so downtrodden, by men that they had to start a movement. The original version was women's suffrage. Don't get me wrong, women's suffrage is a great thing, however the movement was hijacked by nefarious individuals who had a much broader, yet hidden agenda that had nothing to do with the political and financial equality of women.

How to Fix Black Relationships

For Blacks by Blacks

The intended audience are only African Americans. If you are not the intended audience and you find what I say in here offensive, this is your opportunity, right now, to leave. No one is forcing you to read this, and I do not expect any disrespect due to you being insulted.

In this article I'm going to discuss the problems that present themselves within Black relationships. I will not mince words. I repeat, I will not hold back as to the facts, numbers and what my research so far has shown to be the problems affecting Black men and women today, in America. If you are hurt by anything said in here, I say take it to heart and look inside yourself to see if there's actually something about you, that needs to change. Because, something definitely needs to change.

Let's get some number out of the way right now.

1. 70% of black women are obese
2. the Black female is the most single person in America
3. 70% of black people are single, unmarried, without children

Ok I presented those brief numbers so everyone is on the same page.

In my previous article Top 10 Reasons Black Men Won't Date / Marry a Black Woman I listed 10 reasons black men have vocalized they will not date nor marry black women. The argument against the relationship seems, to me, to be one sided.

Black women have adopted causes that were not intended for them at all.

Women's Liberation

The single most divisive issue amongst Black men and women is the women's liberation movement. Black women flocked to this movement thinking it was intended for them. Their white counterparts invited them to join the movement thinking that the Black woman suffered the same inequalities that the white woman suffered. However, the Black man never treated the Black woman anywhere near the horrible way the white man treated his woman. The Black man saw the Black woman as an equal partner in the Black struggle from the beginning, that the first African slave landed on this continent. It is the Black woman who left the Black man by joining the women's lib movement. Mind you the movement has taken a very nasty turn, having been taken over by lesbianism. It is now something completely unwholesome to the furthering of a Black relationship. Heck it's completely unwholesome to the furthering of any relationship.

Please do not mistake the equal pay issue with women's liberation. The two are completely separate.

Black women did not need liberating from their black men. Black women from the beginning, due to the slave master dividing and conquering the slaves and breaking up families from the very beginning, had to raise the children, fathered by white slave owners, to the chagrin of their white wives. Imagine this going on, and Black men still took these Black women into their homes and made them their wives even after being raped by the white slave owners.

It's pretty much a slap in the face to then turn around and point the finger at Black men and say they are at fault for some reason. Black men have always accepted Black women, up until now.

The Inherent Problems with Black Women

The single most largest problem Black men have with Black women is: they are masculine. I know that sounds just ... wrong, but, that's what they, Black men, are saying. And, I totally agree.

"Why can't a man be a man?"

This is the tired mantra sisters put forth to try and switch the argument around. The reality is, the Black woman is masculine: acts like a dude. It is the worst characteristic a woman, who's in the prospect of some day getting married can have.

Black women are masculine:

• the want to run the relationship
• they want to be independent of the Black man
• they want to boss the Black man
• they talk over the Black man

White women's liberation never had these problems. White women's liberation was about political and financial equality. You see how the cause was never intended for you? Like idiots you took the movement way too far. And, because of it, you act like a man. What's worse, you then turn around and say why can't the man be more manly. You stole his pants, what more do you want?. Did you want to be single? If you don't want to be single, stop acting like a man. No man wants to date another man. Let me repeat, no real man wants to date another man or anything manly or anything masculine.


If You're not a Part of Us Then You're the Enemy

How did Black women fall so far off the wagon that they have turned on the Black man? What did the white woman say to convince you that the Black man wasn't being put down by the white man enough, that you need to beat him up too?

It is amazing that the Black woman has been right next to the Black man at the very instant they landed here, both as free men and as slaves. She has witnessed and suffered through the same atrocities that the Black man has gone through. Yet, now she acts as if all of that was a fantasy and the Black man isn't being put down, incarcerated, demonized, stereotyped on a daily basis. Today's Black woman acts totally against the Black man.

It's a sad situation indeed. Divide and conquer. Stop being weak minded. It's like in the Star Wars movies, where you'll see an in-your-face example of the weak minded, when the Jedi plays his mind tricks on people.

The solution

It's so simple, I'm sure you know what I'm going to say. Act like a lady. Go look up the definition if you're unfamiliar with it.

Stop dating worthless scrubs who are going nowhere. Very often Black women will date, or meet Black men who are on a "road to nowhere". Not only that, but they line up and take turns dating the chump. In the mean time, the Black man that's in college is being hounded by latinas, white women and any other woman with some sense. And, the Black woman looks up and he's a doctor with a White wife. What did you expect? I'm sure you've heard the saying "drop that zero and get with this hero". Stop dating trash. While you were busy dating trash for 10 years, the white woman has scooped up the best and the brightest.

"I love me a thug"

A zero you mean? Is that what I heard you say? Let me peep you to some knowledge. 99% of rap music is written by white men, with the intent to denegrate the Black race, objectify Black women, and elevate the worst in society. 85% of Black men have jobs and a home. The median Black household income is $30k a year. That means there's a whole lot of single brothers pulling in $30k a year and have their own home, while you're dating jobless zeros who live on people's couches. These stupid songs Beyonce sings, are not the reality of the black race. These ridiculous songs Lil Wayne sings, are not the reality of the Black race. Those are zeros.

"But they got money"

And they end up in jail and the feds confiscate all of their money and houses. Zeros!

Wear a dress. Be a lady. Stop dating zeros.

Asian women work just as much as Asian men. They have a 85% marriage rate. They have a median household income of $60k a year. Black women need to learn something from their Asian sisters. Oh and Asian women never joined the women's lib movement. They were aware that they were a minority and were very happy with their Asian husbands.

My hope is the the Black woman will read this article, become introspective and realize she is pushing away the very person she wants to be with, the Black man. We need to mend the Black relationship, get married and produce children. We need to realize that we are Black first, in everyone's eyes, then a Black man or a Black woman, and not the other way around. Black women need to love, honor, and obey their Black men. Black women need to nurture their Black men. If a Black man comes home, realize that the white man has beat him down all day long. You, of all people, should be the last person to try and emasculate him. The Black woman needs to mend and heal her Black man, stand next to him and be the lady he wants you to be.

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Black People Need Lawyers

Open Season to Kill Black Men

It's in the news all the time. You see cell phone camera videos of cops shooting Black men, hand cuffed, on the ground, face down, in the back of the head. You see cops tasering Black men to death, using a taser till they stop breathing. I'm sure several videos just popped in to mind if you've been paying attention at all.

Police Code of Conduct

"A police officer acts as an official representative of government who is required and trusted to work within the law. The officer’s powers and duties are conferred by statute. The fundamental duties of a police officer include serving the community, safeguarding lives and property, protecting the innocent, keeping the peace and ensuring the rights of all to liberty, equality and justice."

Does this shock you that this is the actual code of conduct? How many times have you seen police approach someone and immediately taser, punch, kick or pull a gun on them. And, this is with the citizen's hands being up.

"white cop shoots and kills unarmed black man in bathing suit, shoots 28 times."

These actions by police are not just done by a few, but they are the normal operating procedure of every policeman I know or have witnessed. This code of conduct is completely ignored.

I had one ex-cop, who quit due to his conscious, said that his department, and all departments in his city expected you to be violent with suspects. He quit when he lost his temper with a suspect and threw him crashing head first into a car, while the suspect was in hand cuffs. The reason he quit? Everyone in the police department clapped.

"white cop shoots honor roll student black kid in the back 14 times"


Why are so many Black men being killed by police? Why are they being murdered by those who are supposed to uphold and enforce the law? Because, they can get away with it.

Solution


Lawyers. Every Black person, when involved with the police, needs to immediately retain the services of an attorney. Let me repeat that in a very real and serious way:

To participate in the American lifestyle, to take advantage of the freedoms afforded U.S. citizens, to safeguard your rights and freedoms, to protect yourself from a lawless, racist, group of blood thirsty thugs, every Black person needs to immediately retain a lawyer.

Forget these jokes about how lawyers are villains or scum or evil, lawyers get the job done. Haven't you seen the movies where the cops were angry because the "slur got himself a lawyer". Lawyers are the great equalizer.

Black people don't need hand outs. Black people don't need social programs. Black people don't need the NAACP. Black people don't need Islam. Black people don't need affirmative action. Black people need lawyers, attorneys, criminal defense specialists, DUI specialists.

Don't call Al Sharpton. Don't call Jessie Jackson. Don't call Louis Farrakhan. Don't call Benjamin Todd Jealous. Open the yellow pages, go to attorneys, and let your fingers do the walking. And, don't settle for the first one either, get 3 opinions first and different prices. You'll immediately see a difference in attorneys. The cheap one will tell you plea bargain. The middle one will tell you he can get you off the charges. The highest one will tell you he can get you off scott free, sue them, get you and he money, and make the newspapers. However, even the cheapest one is better than nothing. Even the worst lawyer, is better than a state's public defender. Why? Because the public defender gets paid by the same people that the guy prosecuting gets paid from. A public defender could care less about your than if you were a cockroch under his shoe. Get your own lawyer.

"white cop tasers black suspect 7 times till he couldn't move then tasered him 2 more times, pressing the taser to his bare flesh, till his heart stop beating"

You Can Afford a Lawyer or You Can't Afford Not to Have a Lawyer

You will find a lawyer is not a corporation. A lawyer doesn't have a menu that you can order off of. You will find that a lawyer's fees are not set in stone, nor is his payment time period. You can negotiate with a lawyer. You can setup payment schedules with a lawyer. You can trade stuff en lieu of payment, with a lawyer. You can't negotiate with jail. You can't setup a payment schedule with jail. You can't trade stuff en lieu of time served with jail.

Anyone telling you different than what I just told you, doesn't want you to live. Anyone telling you different than what I just told you is racist. Anyone telling you different than what I just told you is ignorant of life in America.

Forget this "God will provide" junk your mom or dad, or pastor tells you. God "provided" you with a brain. God "provided" you with a fingers for you to call a lawyer. God "provided" you with reading skills for you to read this. Yes "God will provide" alright. He provided me to tell you what's the real deal. He provided me with the knowledge to give to you, to uplift yourselves. God is not going to come down on a white chariot and save African Americans from the white man. God is not going to send his host of angels with wings, to fly us away from the misery we are living in today. God is not going to cast down lightning bolts and smite the white man for the centuries of tortue, mutilation, hangins, lynchings, murders, house burnings, bank theft, beatings, tasering, night stick pummelings, jim crow laws, voter tax laws, discrimination, encarceration and every conceivable form of injustices the white man has visited upon us. God is not going to do that. I'm not saying don't go to church. I'm saying, go to church, listen to your pastor, your mom, your dad, but when it comes time, hire you a lawyer.

Why Are Black Men Encarcerated More Than Any Other Race

They didn't hire a lawyer. Case closed. They did not hire an attorney to defend their rights. The rights of Black men have not been upheld for nearly a century now. How many times have you heard the story of the Black man, going to jail for 20 years for murder, and come to find out, he was completely innocent. Now, I ask you, if they can throw a Black man in jail for 20 years for a murder he didn't commit, how many drug charges, gun charges, robbery charges, breaking and entering charges, assault charges, spousal abuse charges, stalker charges do you think Black men are sitting in jail serving right now that they didn't commit? How many of them do you think didn't have an attorney? I bet you 99.999999% of them did not have an attorney.

What about the guilty ones? How many of them do you think didn't have an attorney? I bet you 99.999999% of them did not have a lawyer. What good can a lawyer do in a situation like that? It is well documented that while a white person and black person may commit the same crime, the white person will get the most leniant sentence and the black person will get the maximum sentence. Why? More white people retain lawyers than black people. Let me repeat that:

To participate in the American lifestyle, to take advantage of the freedoms afforded U.S. citizens, to safeguard your rights and freedoms, to protect yourself from a lawless, racist, group of blood thirsty thugs, every Black person needs to immediately retain a lawyer.

Are you finally understanding? You better wake up befor your brother / uncle / cousin / father / you lay dieing in a pool of blood from police thugs. 9 times out of 10 the police departments do nothing to the police officers who murder black suspects. 9 times out of 10 a police investigation is not done. 9 times out of 10 these cases do not go to the FBI. 9 times out of 10 other citizens applaud the police.

"The fundamental duties of a police officer include serving the community, safeguarding lives and property..."

The police are not safeguarding Black men's lives. They are wholesale slaughtering us in the streets. We need to get lawyers who can calm these slobbering dogs down. If we start getting lawyers, then these thugs will either go to jail, or be fired, or be sued out of existance. Either way, lawyers are the answer. Remember, anyone that tells you different, doesn't want you protecting your rights to "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness."

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Top 10 Reasons Black Men Won't Date / Marry a Black Woman

Black Women the Most Alone



So many Black women are alone. The Black American woman is the single most, unpartnered person on the planet. [this is not unwed mothers, this is single women] Is there a rift between black women and black men? At first blush you would think that there would be no reason why a black man would not want to date a black woman. But, as in business, since we are in modern times and for the most part black people are not considered 2nd class citizens any more, the dating pool for black men is wide open. Black women now have to compete with all races to date black men. It might seem strange to the average reader that I would couch those words in that way, i.e. women competing for a man. However, that is exactly how the gender work. It is not the man that primps and preens himself, it is the woman. The woman primps and preens herself to attract the best possible man, not the other way around. If I were concerned about people's feelings, I'd try to beat around the bush, but seriously, there's a multi-billion dollar beauty industry. Do you really want me to kid around with you?

[UPDATE: I am taking applications for dating, Dark Black educated women to the front of the line, the rest, I'll get to you, if I don't find my love at first site first. ] [yes I got jokes]