Black Women the Most Alone
No human on the planet has been more gender ually objectified than the black man. He has been regarded as the essence of gender by most races. When tiny Europeans encountered the large Africans, they were at a loss when they saw their private parts. Many diaries and documentation either praised or demonized the black man's privates. However, be they god or demon, they instantly became an object of desire. Fast forward some 1,000 years to the present and we now have the freedom for all the races to partake of the black man, at their leisure. It is this open season for Black men, that Black women have to compete with.
Instead of realizing what is going on, the black woman erroneously thinks she has cornered the market on black men and can thus act any way she wants.
More often than not, other females, from other races understand the plight of the black man, and are compassionate towards him, more so than the Black women. Understand that other races are accustomed to nurturing, mentoring and guiding their own men as well. With that sort of mindset, Black women have absolutely no grounds to even claim a Black man. In essence, in this situation, black women have nothing to offer black men. And, black men won't tolerate it. There has been a complete paradigm shift with the relation attitude of black women, towards black men, and visa versa. But, it has been to the detriment of the black woman.
Top 10 Reasons Black Men Won't Date or Marry a Black Woman
- 1. black women make black men feel under-appreciated, unwarranted, irresponsible, and regressive. Black women tend to emasculate Black men. - Black women answer this by saying they have to be strong and can't help emasculating her Black man.
- Black women are too aggressive and no longer patient in the waiting on the pursuit of Black men.
- Black women are strong headed, too independent, present great challenges in relationships.
- Black women are masculine, in that they are controlling, and like to run the relationship,
- Black women expect too much, they are gold diggers who will not look twice at a blue collar worker,
- Black women are hot headed and have bad attitudes,
- Black women stop caring about their appearance after a certain age, [around 40]
- Black women are not gender ually open as other races, especially in regards to oral gender
- Black women's tolerance is far too low, they are no longer empathetic to the black man's struggle in white America
- Black women do not cater to their man
To understand this list, you have understand something first. That is, the historical relationship white men have had with Black women. I'm sure noone wants me to talk about that. To hide this relationship and lust for Black women, white men have come up with some very crude caricatures of Black women, so as to appease or cloud the judgment of white women.
If you now compare the list with the stereotypes, you can clearly see, that black women have themselves fallen victim to the caricatures hoisted on them and have thus shunned, driven off or scared off black men.
Historical Stereotypes of the Black Woman
A lot of mature black women see themselves in this light and dress accordingly. They lose all sense of self, and think that since they are over 30, they no longer need to primp and preen to attract a man. And, it works, no man is attracted to them, and it feeds into their self-deprecation.
No one wants to date a mammy. She is of no gender ual attractiveness whatsoever. And this stereotype doesn't have be measured in terms of age. Picture this, a Black "girl", 20 something year old, with long fake hair, long fake nails and dresses sloppy and doesn't take care of her figure. This is the mammy figure, only in a modern, younger version of it. However, you can't tell the black girl she is unattractive to Black men, because she won't accept, nor believe it.
several functions for oppressors. However, it was primarily used to justify the gender ual exploitation of Black women. Because the Jezebel maintains a ravenous desire. The notion that Jezebels were immoral and lustful, in general, and with white
men specifically, served to justify subjugation of Black women.
No one wants to marry a Jezebel. I'm sure there are men who wouldn't mind spending a night with a Jezebel, or two, but no man wants to marry, bring home to mom, have children by [that he cares about] a Jezebel. If you are dressing like a Jezebel, you are going to attract a lustful man or someone not decent. No decent Black man would want to be seen with a Jezebel, because that would reflect on him, as having poor taste. And, a Jezebel would never be seen as having a brain nor a decent conversation. After the passion, the other 23 hours in the day has to be spent talking to your mate. If you aren't seen as being good enough to talk to, noone is going to hang around for those 23 hours. The jezebel image has taken off in recent years. Many Black oriented magazines have completely revamped and repackaged the jezebel look. Many Jezebels grace the covers of Black men's magazines. It is disgraceful. The more these images are seen the less and less Black men will even want to date or even less, talk to a Black woman who dresses like that. Don't mistake "let's have gender " with talking to you.
"The most notable characteristic of Sapphire is her sassiness which is exceeded only by her verbosity. She is also noted for telling people off and spouting her opinion in an animated loud manner. Because of her intense expressiveness and hands-on-hip, finger-pointing style, Sapphire is viewed as comedic and is never taken seriously”
Ultimately, she represents the domineering emasculator. The Sapphire image of Black womanhood, unlike other images that symbolize Black women, necessitates the presence of a (black) man. When the Sapphire is depicted it is the man who represents the point of contention. Her sheer existence is predicated on the trickery and lack of integrity of her male counterparts. This allows her to project her superior moral compass onto the amoral (black) man.
Noone wants to date a sapphire. No Black man needs to go to work, be eyed all day as a robber, thug, murderer, rapist, thief, mongoloid, animal and then come home to a Black woman that emasculates him. It's just not going to happen. You drive away a black man by the millions. And while you might be angry, you have just ruined it with 1,000 other sisters who think life is great and having a Black man would be great.
The tragedy here is, every sapphire has their own unique thought about what a "man" is. And, while they might think they are all saying the same thing "my man is no good", they mean totally different things. Their definition of a man does not agree, not in any objective type of way. While one might be angry that her and her man never goes anywhere, another might be angry that he does not bring her flowers or candy. And, when they compare notes, each could care less about what the other sapphire is angry about, because to them that's not important. However, in the mean time, their loud boisterous nature has driven both men off into the arms of a white / asian / latin girl that could care less about all of those things.
Black men can't date a tragic mulatto. Simply because she won't have him. I've personally met a couple of black women who said they would never, ever date a Black man. [ secretly between you and me, they weren't all that pretty, nor all that bright, so it's no loss to the gene pool anyway ] But, the tragic mulatto today is so convinced of her superiority over Black men, She could never see herself with a Black man. She joins the white side in castigating the Black man. While she may not be loud and boisterous like the sapphire, she may be caught saying the same things under her breath. The tragedy of course is she runs to the arms of some white man, who then wakes up and realizes he's with a filthy Black woman, and dumps her. Although stereotypical, it's all too true.
Do not get me wrong, Black men make these mistakes too, but nowhere near the numbers that Black women do. Remember my earlier quote that the Black American female is the most single and unmarried person on the planet]
Although these stereotypes were hand-crafted and cultivated by white men to objectify and dehumanize Black women, so many Black women actully fall into these stereotypes by themselves.
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