Are You a Man?
Read any man-hating feminist website and you'll find 10 definitions of what a man is. They all circle, like vultures, around the key talking point of the definition of a man being somehow related to the financial responsibility male humans having to their unborn or born children, conceived and delivered out of wedlock. Contrary to statistical facts to the contrary, these definitions are ultimately aimed at the Black "man".
Let's set the record straight to all you idiots who read this crap and don't do your own research:
- regardless of your specific retarded Black man that doesn't give you a dime personally, Black MEN spend:
- more money, percentagewise, compared to their own income - for their children
- more time and more quality time - with their children
So when you see some Black woman talking about shiftless, trifling, deadbeat Black fathers, you need to correct her and tell her, that that's just HER man.
If I were a conspiracy theorist, I'd venture to guess that the people trying to say Black men have a tendency to be deadbeat fathers, probably aren't even Black. Say it enough times and people will believe it is true. But, who would want Black men to have a bad reputation with Black women? *GASP* who could it be? [sarcasm off]
The Real Definition of a Man
Do you think for a minute, if I, a man, could get pregnant from having casual sex that I would EVER have casual sex? Oh, let me answer that for you, in case you didn't get my drift. No! I would never have casual sex. I would need ironclad assurances before I had sex with anyone. I would need legally binding documents. I would need spiritually binding ceremonies. I would need cosmic forces that would come to bear upon my female counterpart, to force her to raise the child with me and be financially committed to it, before I had sex with her, if I could get pregnant from having sex.
You think that's a joke? I am in no way joking about that. I already know the consequence is having a baby. Why on earth, would I risk that? I am not kidding at all.
Everyone is quick to say 2 things:
- kids are just kids and don't know anything
- kids are so grown up these days and know everything
[for those saying it's not kids fault if they have children after having sex, reread the above paragraph]
So I have told you so far that we all know where babies come from; we all know that unwed mothers are a minority within the Black community; so what is the definition of a Black man. I said all the above to bring you to the frame of mind that, this negative propaganda against the Black man has nothing to do with the core definition of a Black man. Why in the hell would you define your races strongest sex, by some political mumbo jumbo that's based on lies?
What Does it Mean to be a Black Man?
When you, a female, goes out to find yourself a "man" you should not looking for a male that has done tricks for other women, you need to find yourself a male that can do for himself.
This is exactly why we are in this stupid predicament of "he my baby daddy and he don't pay me". If you find yourself a "man" then none of this would happen.
Let's go over that definition. It has 3 parts:
- capable of putting bread on his own table,
- putting a roof over his own head
- standing by his own word.
[for those with this foolish notion that marriage isn't everything or that marriage means nothing, someone needs to knock some sense into you. marriage is everything and children are everything. family is everything. without family you have nothing. regardless of how much money you make in your life, at the end of the day money is meaningless and the lasting impressions are what life is about.]
It's the finding the man you can depend on and trust, that's the hard part. I know it's easy, in a time of weakness, to just go find any old Tom, Harry and Dick, but the onus is on you to bear the brunt of the responsibility if you end up in a life changing predicament. You literally have noone but yourself to blame. Once you have found a dependable man, it is rather easy to date him and / or marry him. And, as long as you don't sweat the small stuff, your marriage will last forever.
So let's not fall into the trap of letting some bitter man / woman define what a Black man is for us. With a cool head and mind, we can define what a real Black man, all by ourselves.
Don't look for the flashy guy, look for the guy that has the mind to be responsible. If he's responsible to himself, he'll be responsible with you. If a Black man HAPPENS to drive a BMW, he better be making so much that the cost of the car was negligible to him, meaning in relative terms he could more than afford to buy it and is not going broke from it. [hell for that matter find a brother driving a BMW that is paid off, screw a car payment]
Also do not discount a Black man that lives at home with his parents. I wish I had parents I could live with, I'd be saving so much money it wouldn't be funny. If you find a Black man that has a job, or runs a business [even better] and lives at home, then more than likely you have hit the jackpot.
- he's not stupid enough to be paying rent, giving his money away to someone else
- he's probably stashing away money like a squirrel in summer
- he's probably got a lot going on upstairs [as in his brain] since #1 and #2 might be true
Sadly Black people pay a much higher percentage of their monthly income in housing than any other race. This means that Black people tend to go over the financially sound principles of maintaining and gaining wealth.*If I were you, you being a young female, I would actually LOOK for a Black man with a job or who owns a business that lives at home. Unless you can find a Black man that runs his own business and has a house that's already paid for, look for the one that lives at home, the rest are foolish and don't know the value of a dollar.
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