What Men Want

If men were honest they would say the following.  I am sure women think they know what men want, and I am sure they think men are so transparent and simple that they have them all figured out.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  Men are not simple, and are just as complex and multifaceted as women.  It is illogical to think that because you have a vagina, that somehow you are transcended to a much loftier mind and being than a human with a penis.  If you actually believe that somehow your breasts make you more than a non-breast-having human, then you have fallen for the oldest trick in the book, marketing of "women".

If you have been reading this blog for any length of time, you'll notice, time and again, I shed light into the world that is psychobabble, marketing to the gender and the social stratification builds set up simply to get you to buy into various notions, all for you to put your money down.  Think tanks all over America have come up some doozy complicated propaganda to get women to think one way, "I am equal to a man, if not better."  The truth is, the people behind the marketing, have absolutely no care for women nor even consider them worthy of the things they pretend to give them, equality.  That is to say, these think tanks that came up with "women can work", "women are equal to men", and "women are better than men" nearly all despise women, and consider them inferior.  So why put out propaganda to get them to work and vote and other things?  The truth is simple.  If a woman buys into the notion that a woman's place is not to raise children, take care of the home while hubby goes and wins the bread, then she drops kids and hubby and comes and works as well, and has her own money, to buy crap, without needing approval from her hubby.  Also, with women working the corporate fat cats have another cheap labor pool to exploit for profit.

So, now that you have an understanding what's at work when you think you know what a man wants, you are broken down and suddenly realize that the whole notion that women are somehow: more intuitive, more nurturing, more sensible than a man is all hogwash.

Men are Driven by gender

This is more propaganda put out by your local police, city government and nation government.  How can they make men appear to be driven by gender ?  Easy, they deprive the population of gender , then turn around and put out scandalous information in the media / news that promotes gender .

No man, that is a man, is governed by the thought of gender .  If you find a male, driven by gender , he is an infant in the brain and no man at all.

At the end of the day, having gender may seem like an "adult" thing, but in reality, having lots of gender and constantly thinking about gender is a teenage thing.  Once a man has become and actual adult, he puts aside gender thoughts and starts to think about much, much bigger things in life.

What could it benefit the country to have men in a juvenile state?  Easy, it's called the police / nanny state.  That means that if the men have no matured to the point where they are beyond the adolescent phase, then the government is their father in all things and can tell them what to do.  If you don't have real, thinking, adult men in the population, then you can control everyone.

Do not mistake this point to mean that men don't want to have gender , which stupid people reading this blog sometimes do.  The point is that they are not GOVERNED by the wish for gender .  Sure, most everyone "wants" gender , but adults don't think about it 24 / 7.

Moral: if you find a male that always talks about gender or wants to have gender with you, that male has not matured into adulthood yet, or never will.

Men Will Do Anything for Women

Sadly, I am sure you women have already concluded this is not true at all.  First off, some men, a very minor few, are gender so, of course they will not do anything for you.  Secondly, unless the man is another immature brat, you cannot control him with your vagina.  Yeah, so point one is starting to take shape?  I know a lot of women that are with complete scrubs and control their guys with the threat of no vagina.

First of all, the very idea that you would think to control someone with them getting into your vagina is gender , to begin with.  Now stop for a second.  Think back to commercials, jokes, movies where you saw this in play.  Even a silly comment like "none for you tonight honey".  It indoctrinates you to buy into this gender notion: I can control a man with my vagina.  STOP!  Now if you read point one carefully, you know what I am about to say.  If you can control a man with your vagina, he is not a man at all.

So manipulation aside, why do real men do things for women?  It is pretty obvious.  A human will do something nice for another human for only two reasons: they are a nice person [ which never happens in modern society ]; or they want to gain favor with that person [ even kids understand this concept of reverse manipulation ].  So, if you, the woman, think you are lording over someone because they do things for you, take a step back and realize what you do for them in return.  Don't you feel obligated if someone does something for you?  Everyone does.  Isn't that how the dating scene is?  It's like rule #1, do something for the other person and they will date / fall in love / marry you ... eventually.  Trust me, it's a backwards notion, and a very immature way of approaching love.  There we go again with the immaturity.

Moral: the very thought that you would control someone with your vagina is a gender notion. That aside, if you can control a male with your vagina, he is not a man to begin with.

Men Only Want One Thing From a Woman

Sadly, it breaks my heart to even hear women or worse, men say this.  Again, only an immature male would say this.  Men do not want gender from women, as the be all end all.  If push came to shove there are plenty of sheep and goat in the world that men could stick their penis in.  Remember that.  In the 1700s there was a small town that was plagued with witch hunts.  They killed so many women, as witches, that they had nearly none left of any decent age.  The men took to having gender with sheep after awhile.  Sad but true.

Men want a myriad of things from women.  First and foremost is companionship.  As much as the commercials and TV and movies say men are afraid of commitment, it is not true.  Notice how much this is said all over the place: "men are afraid of commitment".  Unless a man is genuinely uninterested in you, they will date / marry you.  There is tremendous marketing to get you AND men to buy into the notion that men are afraid of commitment.  Why?  Because then you won't seek a boyfriend or you'll sabotage all your relationships and go get a job yourself, and spend your money by yourself.  See the scam?  It's one big circle.

Men want someone that likes them, just for being them.  What does that mean?  That means, when he's 40, you don't get bored of him because he lost his muscles, or going bald or doesn't play basketball every Saturday.  It means you love the person inside, not outside.  Love is an inward thing, not an outward thing.

America is so caught up in looks, as opposed to overseas.  Look at movies from other countries and you'll immediately notice that their actors are not as polished, porcelain, plastic as ours.  So the entire fake look thing trickles down all through our society.  When was the last time you went shopping for clothes and why did you buy the clothes you bought?  That's the real question.  Why do you buy the things you buy?  Looks.  So if a man gets signs from you that you're into him only for his looks, after awhile he'll treat you the same way. And, we pick up on that real quick.  The couple down the road got a divorce at 40, because he said she got fat.  Is he a bastard for that?  Or, the truth is, she treated him like a trophy husband from day one so when she lost her looks, he moved on.

Moral: be sure the man you're with is not just into you for the gender .  Why?  Because he can get gender from anyone, anything AND it doesn't have to be a woman.  Real talk.  It doesn't have to be human.  Real talk.

The Lowest Common Denominator

When girls get together they say and act one way.  When they are alone or one on one, they say and act differently.  Men are no exceptions to this.  The expectations are totally different of course.  The sad part is, as the group gets larger, everyone gets dumber.  The same is true for women as it is for men.  The lowest common denominator is the rule.  Noone in the history of man, has ever been brave enough to appear smarter than anyone in a group they wish to be part of.  Let me put that another way.  To be a part of a group, everyone feels they have to belong to the group.  So, they make sure they don't say anything to make them stand out.  The easiest way NOT to stand out, is to appear to be smarter than anyone in the group.

If that is true then, when these men get together the dumbest person in the group is the guide.  Going back to my other points, the most immature man in the group is how the group will act.  Once the man is part of the group he learns from the group.  So if 2 men in a group of 5 are immature adolescent gender fiends, then the group will be also.  The lowest common denominator wins.

So when you see a man in a group that you like and he acts like a douche bag to you, understand what is going on.  He is expected to act like a douche bag.

Also, when men get together and the dumbest person only thinks about gender , all the men in the group will seek approval from the group by relating gender stories.

Another way and another aspect of this lowest common denominator is the "misery loves company" group.  This is a group of men that will go out of their way to say and do the most depressing things imaginable to impress the group.  Ever wonder why a guy who scratches himself or breaks something gets up and says "boy wait till the guys hear this".  Well now you know why.

What to Take From This

At the end of the day, a man wants one thing.  No, that's a lie.  That what everyone wants you to believe.  The reality is, a man wants a myriad of things:

• companionship till he's old and gray
• someone to share moments with
• someone who shares the same interests as him
• someone to take care of his household
• someone to take care of and have his children [ i know that sounds old fashioned but it is still STILL true ]
• someone that respects him AND respects herself [ being with a gender is fun when you're 17, but not when you're 27 ]
• someone to take care of [ I know, sounds weird, but a man still wants to be a man - me Tarzan you Jane ]

A lot of women miss the boat.  On TV it seems that only cool people are on.  The whole Waltons type of family is dead and gone off of TV, but the reality is that is how men want to live.  

I hate to say it but, if you do not submit yourself to a man and allow him to be the man of the house, then more than likely, either you don't have a man or your relationship is doomed to fail.  A man doesn't grow up and leave the house to submit to another father figure.  At some point he has to become the father figure.  If you're so caught up in this women's lib thing that you cannot see this, then there's no hope for you.  A boy cannot be a father.  I know many try, but ... yeah the proof is in the pudding.

At some point you have to be a woman to your man, and not a man to your man.  Now that's just creepy when it's broken down like that.  But, so many "modern" women are trying to be a man to their man.  Honey, if that's the case then you don't want a man or shall I say, he don't want a woman.  If you get my drift.  LOL

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Invitation to Participate in My Blog: Shakaama Live

I Invite You to Speak Out

This seems long overdue. But, there is method to my madness. I wanted to first make sure people were actually reading my blog before I sent out and invitation to participate. A preacher can't preach to empty pews can he? You can't have a sumptuous dinner party with no guests can you? So, I made sure that I had people reading my blog first, and quite a few numbers, before I send out my invitation.



I'm sure by now you might be hesitating thinking I'm going to ask you for some mad science experiment. Nothing could be further from the truth, so rest easy. I am all American, normal, boring and mundane down to my elbows.

If you can tell however, so far, from my blog, I like to speak out about issues. I like to explain what is going on behind the scenes. If you don't know, half the world is owned by nearly 12 people. All of the news, and the news sources are owned by 1 person. Pharmaceutical companies lobby and pressure congress and other governments to pass laws and go to that one person that owns all the news, to scare you into taking drugs THAT ARE COMPLETELY INEFFECTIVE. The food industry is owned by only a few people. Nearly all of the meat is slaughtered in one place. That means if one cow / pig / chicken is sick, then the entire western hemisphere will catch it. McDonalds, super markets, expensive restaurants all get their meat from the same exact place.

I invite you to participate and open up a dialogue with me. I welcome your comments. If you are an average citizen, know that I am looking out for you. If you are Black, know that I am looking out for you. But, if you are a part of the problem: big pharma; big food; big farm; corporate shill; corporate news; lobbyist; political pundit from the 1 party system, I invite you to comment, but know I will point out who you are and point out why not to listen to you.

Unfortunately, for those who wish to comment on my blog simply to get traffic to their website/blog I don't have time. I have actually opened up all comments so they do indeed track back to your website/blog or link. You will get complete credit and link juice from any links you post in your comments. However, you MUST provide something to the discussion AT HAND. I don't mind helping you out, but leave something at the table when you come to the table.

What's This All About?

You know I love lists, so here is the list of things I'd like from you:

• Politics - I would love your comments about my political news. If you agree or even disagree. Let me know you're alive and breathing. There is no way I am providing the same drone news in politics that everyone else is. They wouldn't dare say Obama is the same as Bush. They wouldn't dare say all of Obama's cabinet members are owned by Goldman Sachs and that's why the stimulus packages are all going to wall stree, evne the ones that say are coming to us, is a lie and just going to wall street. There is no way the corporate media would tell you the truth. Just because Fox News doesn't hide the fact they are lying to you, do you really think the rest aren't lying?
• Whistle Blowers - I invite you to blow the whistle on companies you know or suspect are being underhanded and just out to make a buck. I will research the company and get back to you with my findings. I also present information or blow the whistle on companies I find are just out to make a buck. Understand people, these companies these days are so divorced from you that they don't care if what they are selling you KILLS YOU. It is that far gone. This especially applies to drug companies. If 1 million people died from their vaccine, they wouldn't care. All they would care about is that you paid for 1 million vaccines in this past quarter and made them mega profits.
• Black Issues - I invite you to reveal how the media is lying about Black Americans day in and day out. The media again and again comes up with negative information about Black men, in particular, and Black Americans in general. For instance, I was under the impression that Black fathers do not see / visit / pay for or spend time with their illegitimate children. After researching the topic, I found studies already done that showed that the opposite is true and that the negative assertion is completely false. Black fathers of illegitimate children spend more time, and money, per capita, with their children than any other racial group. This is just an example of what corporate media is doing to destroy the African American Community. I invite you to share your own research, and make sure you list your source so all the readers can see for themselves.
• Black Relationships - I invite your input of either why you love or dislike other Black men or women. Note that, this blog is not hear to deal with homosexuality. I am not equipped to even deal with that subject, so I stress that you only present heterosexual information. We are in a world of hurt in Black relationships already, we don't need the added stress of homosexuality to deal with. Black relationships are under attack in the media and in the street. Again, through my research I found that divorce amongst our Black brothers and sisters is not outrageous at all. I found that there is not this vast majority of children being born illegitimately in the Black community. Once again, this is the media doing this. And, universities are assuming its true and running with the lie to try and research it. And, when they don't find it to be true, instead of presenting the findings, they question themselves or think their findings are wrong.
• The Constitution of the United States of America - I invite you to comment, question or inquire about stories that violate your constitutional rights. Understand, that now if you tell a police officer that he /she is violating your constitutional right, instead of them taking a step back and reflecting on what you said, they have been instructed to bring you in as a possible terrorist and threat to national security. They have even removed the law which prohibited the military from being used inside the U.S. and now the military can come in and quell U.S. citizens i.e. demonstrations, even peaceful ones. I invite you to discuss, share or ask about such violations.
• You Health - I have another blog http://gainmuscleslosefat.blogspot.com/Gain Muscle Lose Fat that strictly deals with your health and health related issues. You may have noticed a lack of pharmaceutical or political discussions surrounding it. Those have all been moved to that blog and I welcome your comments and input there. It's not only for bodybuilders but it is also for health in general. And, I do discuss how the pharmaceutical companies are lying to us, just to get us to buy their drugs more. I also discuss how big farms are killing us with their horrible food practices.
  
• Your Money - I have another blog http://marketbiznews.blogspot.com/Market Biz News that deals strictly with Money, the stock market, U.S. financial political policy. Depending on how long you've been reading my blog, I have moved all those stories over there. I welcome your input and comments. Know that you are being hounded day and night to spend spend spend. You don't need to spend anything, except your bills. If you eat healthy and exercise you won't need any of the drugs that are being peddled, YES PEDDLED, to you. Modern medicine's only saving grace is their trauma and emergency systems. If you have an injury /burn / accident, hands down U.S. medicine is your saving grace and no other country can beat us at it. However, health concerns are bought and paid for. Congress is bought and paid for. Wall street has their hand not just in the governments back pocket, but down the front and back of their pants, and they have a firm grip and they don't intend to let go, at least without a fight. Can you blame them? They have a good thing going. They have the entire nation that can give them money just by having their buddies in Washington pass legislation. I invite you to go there and share your stories about the financial woes and bewares there.

If you've been reading this blog for any length of time, you can tell I sincerely care about all Americans in general and Black Americans in particular. Black people are not free in America and neither are the rest of the working POOR. You do know that, that's what you are, the working poor or working class. There is no middle class. There never was... Oh that might be harsh. There was a middle class a long time ago, when people owned their own houses and had their own businesses. There was not this mass notion of having a "job". You grew up and either worked the farm, if that's where you lived, or helped run the store. The only people with jobs were the poor people or the true professionals. So, what happened? More and more people migrated to the cities and ... they kept looking to the government to provide for them. And, it was like a catch 22. The more people came, the more they demanded, so all these jobs were created out of thin air. The smart people put all the poor people to work. And, that's the real story of America.

I want to smack people around and show them what happened to their country. "Leave it to Beaver" is a lie. If that show were reality, every episode would be "how are we going to pay for this" this week. And by the end of the show it would have been "you gotta go to work honey". I'm not saying people shouldn't have moved to the city. I'm saying they shouldn't have looked to the government for a hand out or to solve their own personal problems. How can you move somewhere without a plan? Now everyone cries that government is too big. You made your own bed.

I want to wake people up and let them see what is going on. If you have ever sat home vegging out to the t.v. after a hard day at work, in which you get paid peanuts, and wondered, is this it? then this is the blog where you can wake up. The matrix really does have you.

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Internet Uproar Over Dark Skin Going to Light Skin

Sammy Sosa Skin Rejuvenation

How dare a Black man bleach his skin. The internet is in an uproar over Sammy Sosa's appearance at the Latin Grammy Awards in Las Vegas. Sammy Sosa and wife Sonya showed up at an even to honor Juan Gabriel as the Latin Grammy Award's 2009 Person of the Year. Sammy's skin appear far lighter than in the past. Pictures of the event floated around the net. People are quoted as saying "What happened to Sammy Sosa?"

The former major league baseball slugger, Sammy's pics could easily make people wonder what was happening and why such kind of photographs were clicked.



"He's not trying to be Michael Jackson," former Chicago Cubs employee Rebecca Polihronis, who talks frequently with Sosa, told the Chicago Tribune.

"He is going through a rejuvenation process for his skin. Women have it all of the time. He was surprised he came out looking so white. I thought it was a body double. Part of [the photo appearance] is just the lighting." Polihronis said Sosa told her the photos are deceiving.

"He was doing a dermatological skin process after years and years [of playing baseball] in the sun," Polihronis said. "It did come out looking weird" in the photos.

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Sarah Palin Divorce False - Wait it Might Be True

Sarah Palin Divorce

This last week heard the shocking news of Sarah Palin getting a divorce. Here's an excerpt of the actual blog that broke the news:

"Earlier this week one of my best sources claimed to have explosive new information for me.

It took all week for us to finally get together, but last night we finally sat down for an amazing conversation. And what I heard made my jaw drop.

According to my source Sarah is finished with Todd and has decided to end their marriage.

She has purchased land in Montana (I wonder whose donations paid for that?), and may be considering moving herself and the children as far away from Alaska as she can get." - Courtesy Immoral Minority blog

Lawyer Serves Papers on Kindergarten

To stifle the story, Sarah Palin's Lawyer threatened to sue the blogger and serve papers on him at his kindergarten, where he works. Here's an excerpt on that news:

"Thomas Van Flein, Sarah Palin's lawyer, threatened Saturday to serve libel papers at a kindergarten to the owner of the highly trafficked "ImmoralMinority" blog for a divorce story on the Palins. The blog was given until 3pm Saturday to remove the story and post a retraction. The blogger stands by the story.
Thomas Van Flein

This is now the fourth threat on behalf of Sarah Palin, including one to AlaskaReport.com, that Van Flein has made to bloggers in Alaska in the past few weeks. None of which he has carried out." - Courtesy Alaskan Report blog

The Rebuttal

Now the news of the divorce spread only on twitter. No national media even picked it up. It wasn't until the denial came, that we saw national media get involved. But, there was no press release to debunk the story, there was a 2nd hand statement made by someone in Sarah Palin's camp on Facebook [ that bastion of media veracity ] [ I really do hate facebook ] Here is the statement by Meg Stapleton:

"Yet again, some so-called journalists have decided to make up a story. There is no truth to the recent “story” (and story is the correct term for this type of fiction) that the Palins are divorcing. The Palins remain married, committed to each other and their family, and have not purchased land in Montana (last week it was reported to be Long Island).

Less than one week ago, Governor Palin asked the media to “quit making things up.” We appreciate that the more professional journalists decided to question this story before repeating it."

Before you jump to conclusions and think that this solidifies the fact that she's not getting a divorce [ because we know a statement on Facebook is concrete ] Let's review some facts:

- it was bloggers that broke the ethics charges story
- it was a blogger that got her picked for v.p. in the first place [ facepalm, can you believe that? ]
- it was bloggers that debunked claims the republican party were making during the campaign
- it was bloggers that debunked the story of her being pregnant

Let's discuss the rebuttal. First of all, VP to Facebook? Seriously? How tacky can you get? And, seriously, is a Facebook denial a denial at all? She had her lawyer tell CBS news that the rumors were "categorically false". And, we all know a lawyer knows that's going on in a marriage. I'm pretty sure a lawyer is the last person to know. Why? Because, by the time he knows, it really is over. Now notice in the rebuttal, they actually completely repeat he rumor. Until the rebuttal the national media did not weigh in. After the rebuttal, CBS picked up the story.

My Gut Feeling

As a child of divorce, this looks like divorce to me. Several tabloids have reported in the past that they were unfaithful to each other, rumored about divorce and marital problems. Exactly how many sources does it take before something is true?

Of course Palin is the best republican party material for comedians, since Dan Quayle. So whatever she does, she'll always be "that girl". For those saying give it a rest, leave her alone... The woman was the Vice President pick for the United States of America. This wasn't some story about a local small town girl who got trapped in a well. You all need to give it a rest. Also, it's not even a year since she's left the spot light. And, to top it all off, she resigned her position as governator of Alaska only last week. Of course, she's going to be looked at. The "give it a rest" crowd are the sore loser republicans. They turn right around and then lambast Obama for not doing what they feel he should be doing. How quickly they forget, The Bush Debacle.

For Palin and family... You'll get through this. People get divorced all day, every day. Heck, I live in Vegas. I have seen a "couple" of divorces, and weddings, sometimes simultaneously.