Legacy

L E G A C Y

... They have literally said, in some countries, that single people are a destroyer of nations...

I could start out this piece in a negative light, like the main reason women do not want to contribute to a family legacy, is because of their selfish myopic outlook on everything. If it doesn't benefit them, right now, then they won't do it. This is the same reason, historically, that women were saved during the most horrible times, like WWII, or the ancient Hellenistic wars, because when the enemy invaded, they could count on women going with them, without any pressure. Many German soldiers in Paris had steady girlfriends.

For a legacy to thrive, you must first convince the matriarch of the family, to be a matriarch. Ironically, modern women have been indoctrinated and brainwashed to think that the patriarch is an enemy. The very word is spoken of in hushed tones of hatred. So you cannot have a patriarch, nor can you have at his right hand, a matriarch.

Also, a matriarch, necessarily comes from a patriarch. The one cannot proceed alone. A patriarch is the solid foundation of a family and the source of the legacy. It used to be that the patriarch built the family homestead with his own two hands. 

With what I'm about to tell you, not only is that impossible, that is also legally a horrible idea, with a modern woman potentially destroying the entire family.

To build a legacy, post 1960, you have to protect the family, even against the very woman, from home the family comes. Sure, she can have all the children and their children, but she can destroy the family home, and the very children you're depending on to build a legacy upon.

You've been told that a woman can take half and get the house, and the car, and the kids, but you have not been told about family legacies and how they protect the very family that came out of the woman and her lawyers seeking to destroy it.

It stands to reason, you haven't been taught this, because the very lawyers that have convinced women to destroy their families, would suffer, if you knew how to protect the family.

When a woman seeks to destroy a family, through divorce, what she is doing is directing her claim, against the husband. So her claim has to be against the possessions of the husband.

So, at a basic legal level, to defeat her, the husband  has to have no legal claim over anything of the family. This is accomplished by mainly the family of the husband owning everything, or everything being in living trusts.

- the family house, owned by the family, not the husband

- his income, coming from a living trust, not a job, or business

- his possessions, also owned by the family, not the husband

This also extends to the father's children, all of them living off of living trusts, so that she cannot touch their money, nor the kids themselves. Meaning, there is no incentive for her to try to run off with the kids, because they are covered by a living trust, that goes directly to them, not her. No child support, no need to try and take the kids.

This is a tool the wealthy use all the time.

Also, although it is terrible, it is necessary these days to form a strict prenuptial agreement, saying that the wife gets nothing. Any divorce means she simply walks away, acknowledging that everything will be under trusts or family possession of the husband's family.

The main reason given for divorce today, is due to financial purposes. If every man set up their marriage, like this, I believe that divorce rates would plummet. Even, I believe lawyers would take a look at the situation and refuse to take on her case. What most women do not know, is that it is the lawyers that get most of the money.

So you have protected your potential legacy, your family, your children, and your homestead. How is it that you can create a matriarch out of your wife?

A. you have to start with a strict definition of a traditional wife

- must be a virgin

- must think of the family first

- must want kids

- must think of the husband first

- must think of you two as a single unit, one flesh

B. she must have talents and skills

- she must KNOW home economics

- she must know the arts: singing, dancing, flower arrangement, painting, writing, play instruments

- she must know how to not just COOK, but how to prepare a 5 star, 3 course meal, but cater a party

- she must know how to run a household staff

C. she must love you

- the bible says a husband must respect his wife, but she must love you. The two are very distinct roles in a marriage. One is devoted to one, and the other appreciates that devotion.

- she must pick up your clothes, run your bathwater, sew you clothes, mend your clothes, plant a garden from which she feeds you, all because she loves you

- she must want to make you happy

- you must not make her do things that would dishonor herself

- she must not do things that would dishonor you, your name, the family's GOOD name

- she must take care of you, when you're sick, and hope that you get well, soon

- she must think of herself as an extension of you, not just that you're married, but that she is... by definition, Mrs. Robert Johnson

D. she must love the children

- she must want children

- she must love having children

- she must think of the children before her own life

- she must encourage her sons to seek out their father's instruction on how to be a man, and her daughters to learn about men from their father

- she must be a perfect example of a loving wife and loving mother in front of her children

It has been erroneously taught today that women had no rights before. This is not true. By law and by definition, the wife came in the name of the husband, as Christians come in the name of Jesus, ordering around demons in his name. A wife had that same exact power. In fact, a wife could invoke her husband's name and buy things on credit.

She could vote in his name, drive in his name, do everything, practically, in his name.

Like Satan himself, the modern talking point is that she could not come in her own name. This is a twisting of reality. There was no such thing as a single woman, back in the day. It was a shame to be a single woman, back then. Who would want to be single, childless and have no one to love?

So, no you couldn't do things in your own name, mainly because you weren't alone. You were a mother and a wife.

They had to break that bond, first, and convince women that that was bad, in order to twist the minds of modern women. Mrs. Robert Johnson, was no more. Not only that, she's not even Miss Henry Thomas, the daughter, today.

Today she's got to pay her own bills, do her own shopping, on her own dime, and pay twice as much taxes now. Used to be Mr. Robert Johnson was the only one that paid taxes. But today, now, Mr.  AND Mrs. Robert Johnson both pay taxes, from the same household.

What must you do to start your legacy?

The first thing to do is to agree, with your soon to be wife, that you two will start a legacy. You must past down good teachings and train your children, and they will do the same with their children. And so forth and so on. And on your death bed, you and your wife will be surrounded by generations of your family.

You might think it's jumping the gun to plan ahead so far, but your marriage will actually survive, much better, if you actually have a plan, set in place. It tells her what is expected of her, and what is expected of you. It tells you both what you can look forward to. So even once the kids are grown and out of the house, the next stage of the legacy begins, that is, the grandchildren.

You might be thinking that the woman is doing a lot, so what does the husband get to do?

- work hard

- keep a budget (she should do this herself too for the family, in fact, she should stretch every dollar to make the budget expand)

- maintain the household: physically and financially (as in fix things)

- maintain the vehicles, making sure none of them fall against regulations

- hunt, fish, butcher, farm (teach the boys to do this too)

- keep dogs (dogs have been with men for over 100,000 years)(big dogs, not lap dogs)

You as the patriarch must come up with a project that you can pass down to your sons, including a business. Your family should be known for something.

P.S.

Don't get a woman that has any social media. She also should only have married lady friends. They have literally said in some countries that single people are a destroyer of nations.

WHERE ARE THE WOMEN?

If you start looking at demographics of general things, you'll notice something glaring. WHERE ARE THE WOMEN?

• Driving - 90% men although all men and women have licenses
• Dangerous jobs - 99% men
• Competitive video games - 99% men
• Superhero movies - 70% men
• Movies in general - 60% men
• Out in public - 70% men
• Online - 90% men

So it seems strange that you have feminists claiming they want women to be a part of everything and that women are equal to men. But, where are the women?

Where are the women?

Well when you look at things women are dominant in, you also notice a pattern, and before feminism, the laws reflected this, although feminists wanted the laws changed, for the worse.

Video games - women dominate colorful, kidlike games that mostly do not require stress building, speedy reactions. Women dominate those games by a staggering 99%.

But feminists demand the competitive video games:

• - include female characters
• - reduce female attractiveness
• - place female characters in positions of power and dominance

The idea is that women will play the game and feel comfortable. But, this has been going on for 30 years and still women don't play the games. In fact, several attempts by different countries, have been made to create female only competitive gaming players. The never made it to the bottom of the competition. In act, when they actively placed the women in the competitions, they lost straight rounds, every time. Rarely has a single woman made it in competitive gaming, and qualified for a team.

Movies - women dominate the audiences of movies centered around love, drama, and romantic comedy. 60% of the audience is female, although they have the money and the freedom to attend it by themselves. If you find a man in a romantic comedy, there's a staggeringly high chance he's there with a woman. So if you removed all the male dates from rom coms, you'd probably have something like 99% female audience.

Equally sci fi and action movies are 60% male and if you removed the women on dates, it'd probably be 99% male. Understand that fantasy movies are not sci fi.

But feminists have demanded that sci fi movies and action movies

• - have strong female leads, although they don't fit in the movie
• - remove female attractiveness
• - remove all gender norms, even in historical movies
• - reduce the masculinity of the men in the movies, so that action heroes went from bodybuilders to Brad the store clerk type body

They complained that these movies, which used to have an actual 90% male audience, were too dominated by men, watching men in strong male lead roles. They made producers insert women in the movies and make the women action heroes, although the actresses were small dainty things. And, they forced them to kick and punch like men, trained by martial arts professionals, to make it appear as if a 90lb woman defeated a 300lb muscle bound man.

The storylines were changed from men being the protectors, heroes, stars, to men just being in the movie and systemically insulting men in their own movies, via the 90lb women. 

But again, the female audience didn't show up. And today, movies that do not have all that, and instead have the traditional gender roles, men as the heroes, score big at the box office. Even real women show up to those movies, alone or with friends, genuinely interested in seeing the movie.

House cleaning - women still, till this day, women dominate house cleaning and taking care of the home. At no point did any of the cleaning products, try to stop portraying women cleaning. Because, women are the ones that purchase the most retail cleaning supplies. (yes, men purchase the most commercial cleaning supplies, but there are no commercials for that) the only thing that's changed is the sponsors for cleaning supplies and home care has TRIED to get men in on the action.

Ironically enough, women now teach their sons how to clean, because they want their sons to be independent and not NEED a woman, because of the changes in gender roles that feminists have demanded. So for the most part, single men, coming straight out of their parent's homes, do not need a woman. For almost anything, and this is what their mothers are training them for.

But feminists... no... they cannot break the bond between the cleaning supply and home care manufacturers. Cleaning companies spend billions on advertising. The women are going nowhere. In fact, innovation and invention in the home care space (mostly by men) is the most excitement you have in this space. You can have a cleaning product go viral.

The space is dominated by straight, married, women. Straight, married, women are not affected, at all, by feminism. As much as the activists try, they have no interest. When it is explained to them, exactly what feminism is and does, not what they say they do, they have no interest and are offended by the very notion. Anything that comes in between them and their husband or them and their children, they want no part of and are very offended by it.

Notice that the straight, married, women that do go with feminism tend to quickly be divorced.

Arts & Crafts - it's basically just like house cleaning. Since, it's also not exciting to feminists, it is left alone. I've walked into cloth and sewing stores and have been the only man there for hours. Unfortunately they are closing down, since women being able to do things themselves is a dying breed.

The days of women watching the T.V. and seeing a dress or suit and popping it out the next day or two are slowly fading away.

So where are the women?

A lot are in school or at home. A lot don't do much of anything. They visit each other and "hang out". A few try to act like men and do things in a manly way, like walk around the street alone, hang out with the boys, drink, smoke. But, for all the pushing feminists try to do, women just are not present for the thing they are trying to push on men.

It's like the boy who cried wolf.

The feminists tell the men, "if you do THIS, women will show up and buy your thing and be happy." But they women don't show up and don't even much care about THIS. Even the idea of being a CEO. As much as feminists push for it, there are less female CEOs today than there were 40 years ago. And the current ones are quitting and retiring, because it just isn't important to them as women, as much as raising their kids. BECAUSE, most of those women are married, with children.

Women are just not interested in that stuff. That's why they are not there.

The Lie of Black Feminism

Can we please put this lie to rest?

The feminist movement STARTED as a movement to get white women, yes just white women, Black women weren't a consideration, the right to vote. Not that there was tremendous opposition. Heck, the truth of the matter was that most WOMEN, back then, detested politics and found it ugly, which it is. So first they had to convince women to actually want to vote. Then they had to get the law to pass to change the language to "anyone" can vote, but not Black men or women. You have to remember this started before the alleged Black civil rights movement.

King Zwelethini and Ndlovukazi Mantfombi  

The movement began in the western world in the late 18th century and has gone through three waves. First-wave feminism was oriented around the station of middle or upper-class white women, and involved suffrage and political equality.

Ok, so that passed. But, hold on, why stop a good thing? We have an organization and ... no more cause. So THEN WWII happened and women went to the factories, because the men were gone. You following me? So they didn't have to pay women as much as men, because they worked like half as much as men. [go look it up]  Fast forward, war's over. BUT, corporations liked that they had cheap labor by females. So they "captured" the white feminist movement.  HOWEVER, by this time, the head of the movement were lesbian. [true story]  Didn't matter, the men dictated what the group would do and get them back, out of the house, back to work.

They then set about destroying the American family. AND THAT WAS FOR JUST WHITE PEOPLE. [Blacks were still not a consideration]

The entire sob story about oppressing women was ... just advertisement. Noone ever believed it.

"The key event that marked the reemergence of this movement in the postwar era was the surprise popularity of Betty Friedan's 1963 book The Feminine Mystique. Writing as a housewife and mother (though she had had a long story of political activism, as well), Friedan described the problem with no name the dissatisfaction of educated, middle class wives and mothers like herself who, looking at their nice homes and families, wondered guiltily if that was all there was to life was not new; the vague sense of dissatifaction plaguing housewives was a staple topic for women's magazines in the 1950s. But Friedan, instead of blaming individual women for failing to adapt to women's proper role, blamed the role itself and the society that created it" [please note that nothing specific was cited as to a real problem nor a real solution to the fantasy problem, in fact the entire second and third wave never pointed to any specific discrimination of women]

Fast forward, past the Black movement, and not to leave well enough alone, the lesbians of the feminist movement set about recruiting Black women, the 2nd largest population demographic. Ironically, although Black men have never oppressed Black women, they somehow convinced the Black women, that by virtue of them being women, they all had solidarity.  But the fact remains, no other race in the U.S. is oppressed by anyone, except for white people. Blacks don't oppress Blacks. Asians don't oppress Asians. Africans don't oppress Africans.

It has been the white agenda to destroy the Black family, through welfare and other horrible policies, as espoused by the Ku Klux Klan and other organizations. And, they have done a smashing job. Welfare has done more to bring Black marriage rates from 80% in the 1940s down to 33% 2000. The feminist movement alone probably contributed 10% to that destruction.

 U.S. Census Bureau. (1940: 77% married, 18% single women, 5% single men)

Black families were a very solid unit before the Black civil rights movement. After "integration" and the Democrats got done with us, the family unit was completely undone.

Conclusion

Not every Black man is going to be a saint. However, nowhere does it say EVERY Black man is going to be a hustler / dog / domineering idiot.

The Black American female is the most, MOST "SINGLE" person in the entire world. She has let herself be so brainwashed that she throws away her own counterpart, welfare, feminism, the media, public education system. No other culture, race, nationality suffers from the same SELF-INFLICTED hardship the Black American woman puts herself through.

I'm not going to pray for you. You just need to wake up. Stop the pitty party. Go get yourself a good man, GOOD MAN, to stand by for the rest of your and his life. At the end of the day, that's what we were put here for. Otherwise we'd all be hermits. You do know humans are a group animal? yeah, that means we need companionship of other humans. The perfect bond between a man a woman trumps all others. And, when that union produces children, your entire life changes... that is ... if you have an ounce of caring in your bones.

So:

1. GOOD Black man [nothing else is going to suffice] 
2. one who cares about you 
3. children 
4. living for each other 
5. you two against the world. 

That's the formula of happiness, right there. Money be damned. That's the formula.

Leave white people to their own devices. We'll survive the Armageddon that's about to happen. We survived slavery.

Ann Coulter Speaks Out Against Libertarians and Ron Paul

Political pundit and conservative author, Ann Coulter spoke out against Ron Paul and continued to rant and rave against Libertarians. He was very taken aback about the entire issue of marriage. Not that the Libertarian view of lessez faire was good enough, but that it was "cowardly" in her opinion. He said she wants to punch Libertarians. He says Libertarians "dodge the tough questions".

Political Pundit Ann Coulter

I personally just think he is just angry about something. He is always going on about how he wishes he could do something to someone who is against him. He has also been known to walk off of Fox News.









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What Men Want

If men were honest they would say the following.  I am sure women think they know what men want, and I am sure they think men are so transparent and simple that they have them all figured out.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  Men are not simple, and are just as complex and multifaceted as women.  It is illogical to think that because you have a vagina, that somehow you are transcended to a much loftier mind and being than a human with a penis.  If you actually believe that somehow your breasts make you more than a non-breast-having human, then you have fallen for the oldest trick in the book, marketing of "women".

If you have been reading this blog for any length of time, you'll notice, time and again, I shed light into the world that is psychobabble, marketing to the gender and the social stratification builds set up simply to get you to buy into various notions, all for you to put your money down.  Think tanks all over America have come up some doozy complicated propaganda to get women to think one way, "I am equal to a man, if not better."  The truth is, the people behind the marketing, have absolutely no care for women nor even consider them worthy of the things they pretend to give them, equality.  That is to say, these think tanks that came up with "women can work", "women are equal to men", and "women are better than men" nearly all despise women, and consider them inferior.  So why put out propaganda to get them to work and vote and other things?  The truth is simple.  If a woman buys into the notion that a woman's place is not to raise children, take care of the home while hubby goes and wins the bread, then she drops kids and hubby and comes and works as well, and has her own money, to buy crap, without needing approval from her hubby.  Also, with women working the corporate fat cats have another cheap labor pool to exploit for profit.

So, now that you have an understanding what's at work when you think you know what a man wants, you are broken down and suddenly realize that the whole notion that women are somehow: more intuitive, more nurturing, more sensible than a man is all hogwash.

Men are Driven by gender

This is more propaganda put out by your local police, city government and nation government.  How can they make men appear to be driven by gender ?  Easy, they deprive the population of gender , then turn around and put out scandalous information in the media / news that promotes gender .

No man, that is a man, is governed by the thought of gender .  If you find a male, driven by gender , he is an infant in the brain and no man at all.

At the end of the day, having gender may seem like an "adult" thing, but in reality, having lots of gender and constantly thinking about gender is a teenage thing.  Once a man has become and actual adult, he puts aside gender thoughts and starts to think about much, much bigger things in life.

What could it benefit the country to have men in a juvenile state?  Easy, it's called the police / nanny state.  That means that if the men have no matured to the point where they are beyond the adolescent phase, then the government is their father in all things and can tell them what to do.  If you don't have real, thinking, adult men in the population, then you can control everyone.

Do not mistake this point to mean that men don't want to have gender , which stupid people reading this blog sometimes do.  The point is that they are not GOVERNED by the wish for gender .  Sure, most everyone "wants" gender , but adults don't think about it 24 / 7.

Moral: if you find a male that always talks about gender or wants to have gender with you, that male has not matured into adulthood yet, or never will.

Men Will Do Anything for Women

Sadly, I am sure you women have already concluded this is not true at all.  First off, some men, a very minor few, are gender so, of course they will not do anything for you.  Secondly, unless the man is another immature brat, you cannot control him with your vagina.  Yeah, so point one is starting to take shape?  I know a lot of women that are with complete scrubs and control their guys with the threat of no vagina.

First of all, the very idea that you would think to control someone with them getting into your vagina is gender , to begin with.  Now stop for a second.  Think back to commercials, jokes, movies where you saw this in play.  Even a silly comment like "none for you tonight honey".  It indoctrinates you to buy into this gender notion: I can control a man with my vagina.  STOP!  Now if you read point one carefully, you know what I am about to say.  If you can control a man with your vagina, he is not a man at all.

So manipulation aside, why do real men do things for women?  It is pretty obvious.  A human will do something nice for another human for only two reasons: they are a nice person [ which never happens in modern society ]; or they want to gain favor with that person [ even kids understand this concept of reverse manipulation ].  So, if you, the woman, think you are lording over someone because they do things for you, take a step back and realize what you do for them in return.  Don't you feel obligated if someone does something for you?  Everyone does.  Isn't that how the dating scene is?  It's like rule #1, do something for the other person and they will date / fall in love / marry you ... eventually.  Trust me, it's a backwards notion, and a very immature way of approaching love.  There we go again with the immaturity.

Moral: the very thought that you would control someone with your vagina is a gender notion. That aside, if you can control a male with your vagina, he is not a man to begin with.

Men Only Want One Thing From a Woman

Sadly, it breaks my heart to even hear women or worse, men say this.  Again, only an immature male would say this.  Men do not want gender from women, as the be all end all.  If push came to shove there are plenty of sheep and goat in the world that men could stick their penis in.  Remember that.  In the 1700s there was a small town that was plagued with witch hunts.  They killed so many women, as witches, that they had nearly none left of any decent age.  The men took to having gender with sheep after awhile.  Sad but true.

Men want a myriad of things from women.  First and foremost is companionship.  As much as the commercials and TV and movies say men are afraid of commitment, it is not true.  Notice how much this is said all over the place: "men are afraid of commitment".  Unless a man is genuinely uninterested in you, they will date / marry you.  There is tremendous marketing to get you AND men to buy into the notion that men are afraid of commitment.  Why?  Because then you won't seek a boyfriend or you'll sabotage all your relationships and go get a job yourself, and spend your money by yourself.  See the scam?  It's one big circle.

Men want someone that likes them, just for being them.  What does that mean?  That means, when he's 40, you don't get bored of him because he lost his muscles, or going bald or doesn't play basketball every Saturday.  It means you love the person inside, not outside.  Love is an inward thing, not an outward thing.

America is so caught up in looks, as opposed to overseas.  Look at movies from other countries and you'll immediately notice that their actors are not as polished, porcelain, plastic as ours.  So the entire fake look thing trickles down all through our society.  When was the last time you went shopping for clothes and why did you buy the clothes you bought?  That's the real question.  Why do you buy the things you buy?  Looks.  So if a man gets signs from you that you're into him only for his looks, after awhile he'll treat you the same way. And, we pick up on that real quick.  The couple down the road got a divorce at 40, because he said she got fat.  Is he a bastard for that?  Or, the truth is, she treated him like a trophy husband from day one so when she lost her looks, he moved on.

Moral: be sure the man you're with is not just into you for the gender .  Why?  Because he can get gender from anyone, anything AND it doesn't have to be a woman.  Real talk.  It doesn't have to be human.  Real talk.

The Lowest Common Denominator

When girls get together they say and act one way.  When they are alone or one on one, they say and act differently.  Men are no exceptions to this.  The expectations are totally different of course.  The sad part is, as the group gets larger, everyone gets dumber.  The same is true for women as it is for men.  The lowest common denominator is the rule.  Noone in the history of man, has ever been brave enough to appear smarter than anyone in a group they wish to be part of.  Let me put that another way.  To be a part of a group, everyone feels they have to belong to the group.  So, they make sure they don't say anything to make them stand out.  The easiest way NOT to stand out, is to appear to be smarter than anyone in the group.

If that is true then, when these men get together the dumbest person in the group is the guide.  Going back to my other points, the most immature man in the group is how the group will act.  Once the man is part of the group he learns from the group.  So if 2 men in a group of 5 are immature adolescent gender fiends, then the group will be also.  The lowest common denominator wins.

So when you see a man in a group that you like and he acts like a douche bag to you, understand what is going on.  He is expected to act like a douche bag.

Also, when men get together and the dumbest person only thinks about gender , all the men in the group will seek approval from the group by relating gender stories.

Another way and another aspect of this lowest common denominator is the "misery loves company" group.  This is a group of men that will go out of their way to say and do the most depressing things imaginable to impress the group.  Ever wonder why a guy who scratches himself or breaks something gets up and says "boy wait till the guys hear this".  Well now you know why.

What to Take From This

At the end of the day, a man wants one thing.  No, that's a lie.  That what everyone wants you to believe.  The reality is, a man wants a myriad of things:

• companionship till he's old and gray
• someone to share moments with
• someone who shares the same interests as him
• someone to take care of his household
• someone to take care of and have his children [ i know that sounds old fashioned but it is still STILL true ]
• someone that respects him AND respects herself [ being with a gender is fun when you're 17, but not when you're 27 ]
• someone to take care of [ I know, sounds weird, but a man still wants to be a man - me Tarzan you Jane ]

A lot of women miss the boat.  On TV it seems that only cool people are on.  The whole Waltons type of family is dead and gone off of TV, but the reality is that is how men want to live.  

I hate to say it but, if you do not submit yourself to a man and allow him to be the man of the house, then more than likely, either you don't have a man or your relationship is doomed to fail.  A man doesn't grow up and leave the house to submit to another father figure.  At some point he has to become the father figure.  If you're so caught up in this women's lib thing that you cannot see this, then there's no hope for you.  A boy cannot be a father.  I know many try, but ... yeah the proof is in the pudding.

At some point you have to be a woman to your man, and not a man to your man.  Now that's just creepy when it's broken down like that.  But, so many "modern" women are trying to be a man to their man.  Honey, if that's the case then you don't want a man or shall I say, he don't want a woman.  If you get my drift.  LOL

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So a new neighbor moved into the complex, white guy, single and of course homosexual. [ just sayin facts ] He's loud, boisterous and broke. I lent him a power chord the fist day I met. Hey, I'm a nice guy. Wanna fight about it? So invariably, this loud, boisterous, chubby, gay guy likes to talk about rather serious subjects. And, he asks me my opinions. Now I've been knowing this guy for all of 5 days. Invariably he gets upset at my answers.

A Hollywood Marriage Gone Wrong: Sandra Bullock

Being Unequally Yolked to the Vanilla Gorilla

One glance at the couple that is Sandra Bullock and Jesse James, shows you immediately that either Sandra Bullock is poor white trash herself or that Jesse James is out of his league. There is no way in a line up that I would put those two together. But, let's not mince words here. Sandra Bullock's marriage is now in trouble, on the rocks and only days after winning best actress Oscar, and it's over infidelity. Seriously though, why would she marry a guy that is embroiled in a huge drawn out custody battle with his ex-wife. Do these people not understand baggage in - baggage out? You would think, with their busy schedules, that any customer that comes with extra baggage would simply be a huge disqualification.

Shakaama Live Calling for All Black Bloggers to Start a New Campaign

Campaign for Black Male Marriage

Hi, this is your host Shakaama. I thought long and hard how to start my series on the Black man. I have done an impromptu series on the Black woman, with differing acceptance and result. However, I would like to start a very formal campaign for the Black man. To kick off the series, I would like to start my campaign for Black male marriage. I want to have an entire campaign dedicated to encouraging Black men to get married, and stay married. While mass media does everything in its power to downplay marriage and come against it, nothing can be said about encouraging marriage. But the facts are clear, marriage is the highest form of a relationship on the planet. For a people to be successful, they must first have a wide swath of them be married. The media doesn't encourage this because it is not profitable. It is more profitable to tear someone down, trash them and insult everything about them, than it is to build someone up or point out their strengths.



To start the campaign, I am calling all Black bloggers to contact me. I thought long and hard about this. We could set a date to launch the campaign and we would all blog about Black male marriage on the same day and keep it up for a few days. The net would have no choice but to recognize the buzz and ensure the success of the campaign. Simply contact me or comment below leaving your blog info. Any link on my blog is actually a do-follow link, so feel free to comment and leave your link. However, any nefarious comments and links will be completely ignored, you know who you are. In return I will contact each and every one of you and setup the date when we launch `privately.

People reading this might say, why only Black bloggers. The answer is simple. White people always complain that Black people look for handouts and do nothing for themselves. This is Black people doing something for ourselves. If you think it unfair that your blog would not be included in the campaign, I don't think it's fair that nearly all media is 99.99999% white. You think Telemundo was started simply as a whim? You think BET was started as a whim? So this is Black people taking the initiative to get out from under the power of someone else and doing our own thing.

Black Male Campaign

As I said the Black male marriage campaign is simply a kick off to the Black male campaign. You do not have to participate in the whole campaign, but if you would like to, I would be happy to correspond with you about each topic each day. It would mean a very successful campaign all around if everything was coordinated.

As it stands, overall, I wish to encourage the Black man to go beyond what he is now.

• I want to encourage him to learn to speak proper English
• I want to encourage him to learn everything there is to know about personal finance
• I want to encourage him to marry so that he can grow his estate
• I want to encourage him to take a very hands-on and active role in the education of his children
• I want to encourage him to have the proper attitude about money and to teach that to his children, i.e. sew your own clothes or buy cheap ones, instead of buying name brand to show off (what does a 6 month old need with $100 shoes, he's going to outgrow in a couple of months)
• I want to encourage him to have tremendous respect for himself
• I want to encourage him to understand he owes his community, because he is not alone and people have paid dearly for him to be where he is at
• I want to encourage him to never lay hands on another brother, it should be unthinkable that a Black man should lay his hands on another Black man, just as it is unthinkable for a Black man to lay his hands on a sister

These are but a few of the topics that will be covered in the Black male campaign. Like I said comment below or contact me if you wish to participate, Black bloggers only please. Thank you.

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Black Women are the Problem with Black Men

Black Women Single

Oprah Winfrey said it on her show, so obviously she and her staff have seen the same research I have: 70% of Black women are single. This has to be devastating news. And, before you ask about other races, I don't know. And, not to be blunt, I don't care, for the purpose of this article. I wrote an article, that seems to be quite popular: Top Ten Reasons Black Men Won't Date / Marry a Black Woman. Invariable the feedback goes along the same lines as the reasons the Black men gave in the national study on the subject: Black women's pride pushes everyone away, including Black men.

10 Things You Need to Ask Before You Marry Her

Before You Get Married to Her Money

Here's a quick quiz you need to ask your "soul mate" before you even pop the question. The reason for this, is that so many young people ruin their credit, right at 18 and then take 30 years to get it right. With that in mind then, could you be walking into a financial mind field? Oh you bet. You are right.

It would be wise, it would behoove you, to quiz the person about their money, before you go that "next step". It could be a massive fall financially, if you tie the knot, and her creditors come after you. Or, you were planning on buying a house right after marriage, and BLAMMO!! her credit is so bad you can't get a decent rate, or worse, a loan.

I knew a girl who was so far in debt and her attitude was just so ... childish that it boggled my mind. She had a car; wrecked it; still owed on it; let it default; then went back to the same company and they tacked on both car notes to her car. So in essence she was paying for two cars while driving one, she was upside down in the car. And, she didn't even care. She thought it was funny. She was already married at the time. I can't imagine what her husband thought. I didn't know him, nor never met him.

By that example, and some women just use "I'm only a woman" as an excuse to not deal with financial matters. I can't count the times I've heard, "oh my husband takes care of all of that." And, when he dies? She has no clue what to do.

The Pre-engagement Quiz

10. You receive a credit card in the mail. It says "free" and "you were preapproved." What do you do with it? The correct answer is - send it back.

9. You see an ad on t.v., at night, selling something you were actually going to go shop for the very next day, and it's $10.00 cheaper, even after shipping and handling. However, the company gives a P.O. BOX address. Do you order the product off the T.V. The correct answer is - go buy the one at the store.

8. Your cousin / nephew / niece asks you to co-sign on a car. You haven't seen them in a few years and you have no idea if they have a job. Do you co-sign the loan? The correct answer is - no.

7. Do you have a savings account?

6. Do you have a C.D.? [certificate of deposit]

5. How many cars have you had, and have you ever paid off one, and is the current one paid off or payments up to date? You should never, ever pay for another human's car expenses. If they can't pay for it themselves, that's a warning sign to leave.

4. Her living situation might be temporary so it's not adequate to ask about that. However, the ideal woman may be purchasing a house. If she is renting however: How much is your rent? How much do you make? Is your rent current? You should never, ever pay for another human's living expenses. If they can't pay for it themselves, that's a warning sign to leave.

3. You live one block away from a ritzy yuppie grocery store and one block away from a dollar grocery store. Of course the food at the dollar grocery store is rather bland, yet healthy. You need a better car to get ahead at your job, since your boss sometimes asks you to drive him / her to staff meetings. Do you scrimp and save and buy from the dollar store? The correct answer is - yes.

2. The latest magazines have crowned bubble bottom jeans as the must have jeans of the year, however, they cost $250. You know some shoes that would match but they cost $213. Your friend is having a party next weekend, and they are always getting on you about the clothes you wear. So far you have $800 [ask her] saved up in your bank account. Do you go buy the jeans and shoes and surprise your friends? The correct answer is - no.

1. If you lost your job today, and had no family, and couldn't get welfare, and couldn't get unemployment, could you go an entire year without finding work, from just your saving account? The correct answer is - yes.

If the girl that has caught your eye, answers any of these questions incorrectly, my advice is to move on. I'm sure love is a great thing and all, but being financially miserable is setting yourself up for a divorce. Those are just cold hard facts. More people get divorced over money than any other subject.

Since you're an adult, think like an adult. If you are going to dedicate yourself to a woman, it's not just physical. When you get married you are agreeing to: dedicate your body; dedicate your mind; dedicate your soul; dedicate your time; and dedicate your pocket book. If you are going to mix your pocket book, you have to know what you're getting into. If the person is just starting out financially, then you have to know how they think about money.

If you have $10,000 in savings it makes no sense to marry a woman that has none. You're not equal and the marriage would be awkward. Keep in mind $10,000 isn't a whole lot of money. But such a small amount is the difference between someone who makes a salary and someone who works hourly. Such a small difference is the difference between someone who doesn't have leisure time, nor leisure money and isn't used to neither one.

I've had friends and I mean a lot of them, whom if I said let's go see Batman and stop for a burger on the way would say "I don't have money". They didn't mean they were saving their money and didn't want to waste it on lunch and a movie. They meant literally they didn't have that much money to spend. Ultimately I had to get a new group of friends. I couldn't be "friends" with people I couldn't hang out with on my level.

Just as you see "lifestyles of the rich and famous" those people wouldn't hang out with me. Nor, could i hop on a jet and meet them in Paris. These are just financial facts.

Don't let your mouth write a check your behind can't cash. Don't get all head over heels in love with some girl AND THEN after the fact find out she's not only broke, but so deep in debt, it affects your credit.

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Top 10 Reasons Black Men Won't Date / Marry a Black Woman

Black Women the Most Alone



So many Black women are alone. The Black American woman is the single most, unpartnered person on the planet. [this is not unwed mothers, this is single women] Is there a rift between black women and black men? At first blush you would think that there would be no reason why a black man would not want to date a black woman. But, as in business, since we are in modern times and for the most part black people are not considered 2nd class citizens any more, the dating pool for black men is wide open. Black women now have to compete with all races to date black men. It might seem strange to the average reader that I would couch those words in that way, i.e. women competing for a man. However, that is exactly how the gender work. It is not the man that primps and preens himself, it is the woman. The woman primps and preens herself to attract the best possible man, not the other way around. If I were concerned about people's feelings, I'd try to beat around the bush, but seriously, there's a multi-billion dollar beauty industry. Do you really want me to kid around with you?

[UPDATE: I am taking applications for dating, Dark Black educated women to the front of the line, the rest, I'll get to you, if I don't find my love at first site first. ] [yes I got jokes]