L E G A C Y
... They have literally said, in some countries, that single people are a destroyer of nations...
I could start out this piece in a negative light, like the main reason women do not want to contribute to a family legacy, is because of their selfish myopic outlook on everything. If it doesn't benefit them, right now, then they won't do it. This is the same reason, historically, that women were saved during the most horrible times, like WWII, or the ancient Hellenistic wars, because when the enemy invaded, they could count on women going with them, without any pressure. Many German soldiers in Paris had steady girlfriends.
For a legacy to thrive, you must first convince the matriarch of the family, to be a matriarch. Ironically, modern women have been indoctrinated and brainwashed to think that the patriarch is an enemy. The very word is spoken of in hushed tones of hatred. So you cannot have a patriarch, nor can you have at his right hand, a matriarch.
Also, a matriarch, necessarily comes from a patriarch. The one cannot proceed alone. A patriarch is the solid foundation of a family and the source of the legacy. It used to be that the patriarch built the family homestead with his own two hands.
With what I'm about to tell you, not only is that impossible, that is also legally a horrible idea, with a modern woman potentially destroying the entire family.
To build a legacy, post 1960, you have to protect the family, even against the very woman, from home the family comes. Sure, she can have all the children and their children, but she can destroy the family home, and the very children you're depending on to build a legacy upon.
You've been told that a woman can take half and get the house, and the car, and the kids, but you have not been told about family legacies and how they protect the very family that came out of the woman and her lawyers seeking to destroy it.
It stands to reason, you haven't been taught this, because the very lawyers that have convinced women to destroy their families, would suffer, if you knew how to protect the family.
When a woman seeks to destroy a family, through divorce, what she is doing is directing her claim, against the husband. So her claim has to be against the possessions of the husband.
So, at a basic legal level, to defeat her, the husband has to have no legal claim over anything of the family. This is accomplished by mainly the family of the husband owning everything, or everything being in living trusts.
- the family house, owned by the family, not the husband
- his income, coming from a living trust, not a job, or business
- his possessions, also owned by the family, not the husband
This also extends to the father's children, all of them living off of living trusts, so that she cannot touch their money, nor the kids themselves. Meaning, there is no incentive for her to try to run off with the kids, because they are covered by a living trust, that goes directly to them, not her. No child support, no need to try and take the kids.
This is a tool the wealthy use all the time.
Also, although it is terrible, it is necessary these days to form a strict prenuptial agreement, saying that the wife gets nothing. Any divorce means she simply walks away, acknowledging that everything will be under trusts or family possession of the husband's family.
The main reason given for divorce today, is due to financial purposes. If every man set up their marriage, like this, I believe that divorce rates would plummet. Even, I believe lawyers would take a look at the situation and refuse to take on her case. What most women do not know, is that it is the lawyers that get most of the money.
So you have protected your potential legacy, your family, your children, and your homestead. How is it that you can create a matriarch out of your wife?
A. you have to start with a strict definition of a traditional wife
- must be a virgin
- must think of the family first
- must want kids
- must think of the husband first
- must think of you two as a single unit, one flesh
B. she must have talents and skills
- she must KNOW home economics
- she must know the arts: singing, dancing, flower arrangement, painting, writing, play instruments
- she must know how to not just COOK, but how to prepare a 5 star, 3 course meal, but cater a party
- she must know how to run a household staff
C. she must love you
- the bible says a husband must respect his wife, but she must love you. The two are very distinct roles in a marriage. One is devoted to one, and the other appreciates that devotion.
- she must pick up your clothes, run your bathwater, sew you clothes, mend your clothes, plant a garden from which she feeds you, all because she loves you
- she must want to make you happy
- you must not make her do things that would dishonor herself
- she must not do things that would dishonor you, your name, the family's GOOD name
- she must take care of you, when you're sick, and hope that you get well, soon
- she must think of herself as an extension of you, not just that you're married, but that she is... by definition, Mrs. Robert Johnson
D. she must love the children
- she must want children
- she must love having children
- she must think of the children before her own life
- she must encourage her sons to seek out their father's instruction on how to be a man, and her daughters to learn about men from their father
- she must be a perfect example of a loving wife and loving mother in front of her children
It has been erroneously taught today that women had no rights before. This is not true. By law and by definition, the wife came in the name of the husband, as Christians come in the name of Jesus, ordering around demons in his name. A wife had that same exact power. In fact, a wife could invoke her husband's name and buy things on credit.
She could vote in his name, drive in his name, do everything, practically, in his name.
Like Satan himself, the modern talking point is that she could not come in her own name. This is a twisting of reality. There was no such thing as a single woman, back in the day. It was a shame to be a single woman, back then. Who would want to be single, childless and have no one to love?
So, no you couldn't do things in your own name, mainly because you weren't alone. You were a mother and a wife.
They had to break that bond, first, and convince women that that was bad, in order to twist the minds of modern women. Mrs. Robert Johnson, was no more. Not only that, she's not even Miss Henry Thomas, the daughter, today.
Today she's got to pay her own bills, do her own shopping, on her own dime, and pay twice as much taxes now. Used to be Mr. Robert Johnson was the only one that paid taxes. But today, now, Mr. AND Mrs. Robert Johnson both pay taxes, from the same household.
What must you do to start your legacy?
The first thing to do is to agree, with your soon to be wife, that you two will start a legacy. You must past down good teachings and train your children, and they will do the same with their children. And so forth and so on. And on your death bed, you and your wife will be surrounded by generations of your family.
You might think it's jumping the gun to plan ahead so far, but your marriage will actually survive, much better, if you actually have a plan, set in place. It tells her what is expected of her, and what is expected of you. It tells you both what you can look forward to. So even once the kids are grown and out of the house, the next stage of the legacy begins, that is, the grandchildren.
You might be thinking that the woman is doing a lot, so what does the husband get to do?
- work hard
- keep a budget (she should do this herself too for the family, in fact, she should stretch every dollar to make the budget expand)
- maintain the household: physically and financially (as in fix things)
- maintain the vehicles, making sure none of them fall against regulations
- hunt, fish, butcher, farm (teach the boys to do this too)
- keep dogs (dogs have been with men for over 100,000 years)(big dogs, not lap dogs)
You as the patriarch must come up with a project that you can pass down to your sons, including a business. Your family should be known for something.
P.S.
Don't get a woman that has any social media. She also should only have married lady friends. They have literally said in some countries that single people are a destroyer of nations.
